Can't handle rude people

I have no tolereance for rude people lately and I am starting to be mean :(

First, My MOH had to call EVERY guest for my shower because NOONE rsvp'ed (yes, all contact info was correct).

Then guests came and ate and left with no gifts.

And a younger cousin brought a friend, who was cheating to win all the prizes and quit frankly was obnoxious overall.

(which I can accept both of those, but my girls paid for this and it was my CLOSE family).

Wedding RSVP's are coming, with (of course)guests not invited.

So now I snapped (and scared a few people) getting lunch today because this b*tch kept pretending to look at menu and eased her way in front of me then tried to go first. I hate that!
Also notice it's almost 3pm and I just got lunch. Why? Because someone decided when I was walking out the door they HAD to stop to discuss immediately a job that won't even need to be looked at for 2 weeks!

I guess maybe I am starting to get stressed.....

People came to your bridal shower and did not bring gifts ?
Did I read this correctly ?

they really came with no gifts...did you register for gifts and include that in the invites
wow

That is just CRAZY!!! How do you go to a function empty handed?????? I wonder if these same people plan on coming to your wedding empty handed NOT COOL

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Posted by jennypie47

Yes, several came and did not even bring a card.

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I think I want to throw up! How disgusting...

I am so sorry you've got to deal with people like that... here's a hug or ten:

aw honey its normal. I wanted to punch most of my BP out...for silly reasons.
All of your reasons or being annoyed are valid. Just try to give yourself some breathing room and time to kind of wind down and relax

How people can go to a bridal shower and not bring a gift is beyond understanding. And for NO ONE to RSVP -- wow. I'm sorry!

I know just how you feel about people who get in front of you on line ... very rude. Why is it so important for them to be one person closer to ordering?? Is it going to ruin their lives if they have to wait 5 more minutes? (If that?)

As for the people who are inviting themselves to your wedding -- are you telling them no? (As in, 'I'm sorry, but we are at our limit -- so and so, who you added to your RSVP, cannot attend.') think now that I would have no problem with this, but I can only hope that my conviction does not waver when it's my turn to review RSVPs...

If you can, take a nice bath or a long walk tonight and practice inhaling and exhaling :)

I feel like curling up in a little ball. I hate when I get nuts. I guess I should be glad it took until now to get really stressed.

Yes all registry info was in the invites, all contact info correct, everyone knew me (wasn't alot of people).

Uninvted guests I am politely turning down, although I am being careful because we are freaked we won't reach our minimum.

As for line cutters, I usually am too nice to get mad because the extra time doesn't matter to me that much. But not today!

VENT VENT VENT..sometimes you need it... I hate hearing that people RSVP with an added person who was not invited... I haven't sent mine out yet...but God help these people if they do it to me... some people have no idea and are in their own world...they are probably thinking well one more person won't hurt.... show them all your bills and then they will be singing a different tune.

Hang in there.. .get angry with people...they deserve it!!!!

People are rude....I had mt FAMILY acting like morons at my shower I wanted to tell them to leave but my mom would have killed me. But i can't believe people came to your showewr and didn't bring you gifts, maybe they didn't have money.

As far as the invites go I hate when people don't respond on time it drives me nuts either your coming or not....

Your probably just stressed

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Posted by jennypie47

Yes, several came and did not even bring a card.

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I can't believe that anyone would go to a shower and not even bring a card, how rude!!! My mother always taught me that if you go to a party you bring a gift. What we they thinking?

Oh wow...now if that were me, I would have snapped, like about the moment I woke up! I feel for you!

And how does someone have the nerve to show up for a shower with not even a stinking card????

Wow Ican't believe they would come to your shower with nothing for you. At least a card! It's ok to be stressed once in a while. As long as you don't actually hurt someone its ok to vent your anger. And as far as your Uninvited guests I would definetly call the people who were invited and explain that you have a limit aas to how many people you can have at you RH and that you cannot accomadate their date. good luck!

the fact that people actually came w/ out gifts to the shower is ridiculous....it's a SHOWER for gosh sakes....i'm throwing up one for you to the big guy upstairs

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Posted by jennypie47

Yes, several came and did not even bring a card.

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Are you kidding me! how can people walk into a place with nothing in their hand? especially for a shower.

Don't be unhappy. I understand what you mean about rude and inconsiderate ppl. Trust me, I feel the same way. Sometimes, you just have to take a breather. BTW: a couple of ppl came to my shower empty handed too. I couldn't say anything cause, I didn't want to come out sounding like a bridezilla or someone that only cares about gifts. I guess some ppl just didn't learn about the etiquette (sorry if misspelled) way of it all..

I hear ya! I just hate myself for how nasty and mean Iam becoming toward rude people. Usually, I just dismiss it but lately feeling the stress from my family and friends with wedding planning I just take it out on those that pi$$ me off! Here's some hugs to make you feel better.