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edsprincess Posted:

cant sleep

is there anyone else who cant sleep? me and fh are fighting thats why i cant sleep and theres never anything on the boob tube.

glinda_goodwitch Posted:

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Me too. I guess I'm still mad about this afternoon and how my mom can be kind of mean (post on 06 brides). I'm sorry about your fight with FH. What was it about? (if you don't mind my asking)

edsprincess Posted:

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no i dont. its stupid crap. we work together okay and he hates working there because of me. he said cause of me he cant work the shifts he wants. which he is starting tuesday at 4 am. then he say well ill never see you because i dont leave until 8 or 8:30 at night. and he wants me to quit. i cant. im making $17 an hour and i need my benefits. i cant go down making $8 dollars an hour to part time. and he has the balls to say i choose money. to make a longgggg story short.

edsprincess Posted:

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And im sorry about your mom. that is rude. you worked hard to keep that weight off. i wish i could loose 30 lbs

glinda_goodwitch Posted:

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yeah, it must be hard working together. Hopefully you can work it out so that you have shifts that partially overlap, so that you can still see each other, but still get some work done.

glinda_goodwitch Posted:

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Oh, I forgot to ask...what do you guys do for work?

edsprincess Posted:

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he doesnt want me at work. he doesnt even want to hear about the b/s from work. he says ive been there 9 yrs, im atoped out senior employee. he cant go anywhere for what hes making.

edsprincess Posted:

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we both work for costco wholesale. the one across the street from the smithaven mall.

glinda_goodwitch Posted:

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You mean he doesn't want you to work where he works at all? That's just wrong. Its your decision where you work.

edsprincess Posted:

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im between a rock and a hard space. his mom agrees(i dont have a close relationship w/my mom to talk to her about these things) and his sister agrees. they both say i shouldnt
quit because he tells me to.
edsprincess Posted:

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i met him a couple of months working there.

glinda_goodwitch Posted:

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Posted by edsprincess

im between a rock and a hard space. his mom agrees(i dont have a close relationship w/my mom to talk to her about these things) and his sister agrees. they both say i shouldnt
quit because he tells me to.



Wait, they said you should or you shouldn't quit. I read should on the board, but when I quote you it says shoudn't. I'm confused...
glinda_goodwitch Posted:

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Oh, nevermind. I think it was edited. I agree. You shouldn't quit unless he gives you some rational reasons as to why you should quit.

edsprincess Posted:

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i made a boo boo. i should read shouldnt.sorry.

glinda_goodwitch Posted:

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That's okay. it just confused me a bit. You guys should sit down and talk when you've cooled off a bit. While I don't think you should just quit on the spot because he said to, maybe you could talk and go over different options for both of you. I would imagine it is hard working with your FH. I guess some couples could do it, but I like having my separate workday that I can my FH about later.

edsprincess Posted:

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its just aggravating! i dont see him up. no hes sound alseep. probally doesnt realize im out of bed.

glinda_goodwitch Posted:

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Sorry I wasn't of much help with advice. I hope you feel better though just venting. I think my Nyquil is kicking in (for my cold, not for insomnia ) I'm going to try to go to sleep. Good luck talking with your FH, and let me know how it goes.
edsprincess Posted:

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thats the thing he doesnt like talking. his mother even said that. sometimes hell burst out about it, ill be mad and hell asked why im mad. dr jeckal and mr hyde

edsprincess Posted:

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good luck with you and your mom. good night!!!!! and thank you for letting me vent. i needed it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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