Catholic Brides-- Important question regaring Pre-nuptial Enquiry/Investigation Form

Catholic Brides-- Important question regaring Pre-nuptial Enquiry/Investigation Form

We are having a DW in Ireland and have to meet all the church's requirements in our local parish to be sent over to the the church we are being married in,

I just spoke with our local priest and he said that as long there weren't any 'impengencies' (sp) with our pre-nuptial investigation that he would be glad to forward a letter to our officiant stating that.


My question is-- what would be an 'impengency' (sp)-- FH and I live together - could this ruin it for us????

Please let me know your experiences- TIA

Re: Catholic Brides-- Important question regaring Pre-nuptial Enquiry/Investigation Form

i am not sure

but i think that only applies to you being married to someone else

being divorced and not having the marriage anulled

or being related

so i think you are safe

no worries!

Re: Catholic Brides-- Important question regaring Pre-nuptial Enquiry/Investigation Form

I am not sure, but I think he might just be talking about communion, confirmation... that stuff

Re: Catholic Brides-- Important question regaring Pre-nuptial Enquiry/Investigation Form

It basically means previous marriages, not being baptised or confirmed, yadda, yadda. It does not mean living together. And if a church turns you down on living together, don't lie!!! Just find another priest or church (which I can't believe you will need to). Most of our pre-cana class lived together. We had 2 bedrooms before marriage because we couldn't afford 2 places on LI. But DH took a job here, so we moved. It happens. Good luck!!!!