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Posted by JennyAl
we're not having a full mass b/c its on a sunday....but we would like to say our own vows after the traditional.....
You can not write your own vows in most churches...they want the standard said.
Looks like we are getting mixed reviews on whether you can or can't do your own vows in the church. I'm wondering if it goes on a church by church or priest by priest standard?
If you go to the Diocese of Rockville Centre (drvc.org), it will give you all the information needed if you are getting married in a catholic church on long island. Stated in the diocese home page states that you must use their own vows, but that you may use your own vows after using theirs.
Posted by donegal419
From what I understand your vows are the Catholic Church standard vows. You cannot write your own.
It depends on the Church and also on the Priest. In Pre-Cana that actually give you a book that has different vows to choose from that vary from standard vows.
HTH
Posted by Nina
Kneel, Sit, Kneel, Sit, Stand, Kneel, Sit, Kneel, Stand and then get drunk![]()
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