Hey Scott!
Here's the deal... as the owner of three cats (and having lived with quite a few roommate's cats in the past) let me tell you that there is NO telling what kind of personality any domestic cat will have. Unless the cat is purebred (i.e. Siamese) it's kind of a crap shoot. I have a calico cat (the epitome of a scaredy cat... she's the most gorgeous cat ever, but she runs from anything she doesn't know really well), a big fat fluffy gray cat (part Maine Coon... 19 pounds of love! She has bad habits but she's a sweetheart and very mellow), and a tuxedo cat (the only boy... very mischevious but such a mush! He loves to cuddle, but also loves to tear around the house at breakneck speed). So I guess I consider myself a bit of an expert
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The best advice I can give you is to handle your kitten a LOT when it's real small. Pick it up constantly, cuddle with it, pet it, teach it that their claws HURT and they shouldn't use them, and don't let them claw all over everything (if you let them claw a bad piece of furniture, there will be no stopping them from clawing your new couch. They see all furniture as fair game once you give them the OK once). Same goes with jumping on counters, tables, etc. Make sure they know from day one where they are and are not allowed. Cats are smart! They'll get the hint after a while. Besides a firm 'NO', a little spray bottle or squirt gun works well to deter them, since they hate getting wet.
Also - DO NOT FEED THEM SOFT/WET FOOD!!! It's really bad for them. It makes them fat and increases their chances of urinary, kidney, liver, and dental problems. If you insist on feeding them soft food, only do on rare occasions, and make sure it's a good quality kind like Iams. Same goes for dry food... don't buy Deli Cat or Meow Mix or any of those brands that you usually find in supermarkets. (We feed our mongrels Max Cat Lite Hairball Formula). Once you find a brand, stick with it. Cats hate change, and too much variety can upset their stomach (and then they'll leave you icky messes on your carpet! Bleh!)
Brush your cat a lot. Prevents hairballs and helps with shedding.
DO NOT let your cat outside, unless you're there to watch it and make sure it doesn't go far or get into trouble.
The best litter we've tried is the Arm & Hammer Crystals blend, although Tidy Cats is a close second. Try to find an uncarpeted place for the litterbox, and make sure you get the covered style litterbox. If you can't find anything uncarpeted, get a litter mat. Even with a cover, litter still goes everywhere and it's much easier to sweep up than to vacuum.
OK - I think I can step down from my feline soapbox now! If you have any questions, please feel free to FM me. I hope you enjoy your new pet! Cats can be a handful (especially kittens) but they always mellow out and end up being your best friend. My kitties are like my children and I would do anything for them. Please post a pic of your new kitten once you find him/her!