CEREMONY HELP!!!

My fiance' and I are an interfaith couple and we are looking for a ceremony site for a non-denomoninational wedding ceremony on long island. We have our reception site (Flowerfield), but we are interested in doing the ceremony separately because we would like a break in between the ceremony and reception for pictures. (I really would rather not see him before the wedding, nor take pictures during our cocktail hour, if we were to get married at the reception site. Any ideas????