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Ceremony Processional Help!

janelle Posted:

Ceremony Processional Help!

Does anyone have any idea about order of seating of parents/grandparents/stepparents/ etc for the ceremony? I've been googling and can't seem to find straight answers.

Do the Parents of the Groom walk down together?

Where do stepmothers fit in?

What is the correct order?

I can't believe I Don't have this figured out already. If anyone has a good resource please share. Even my Emily Post book doesn't have great details on this. Thanks so much.
futuremrstaheri Posted:

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DH's dad wasn't there, so we just had my mom and his mom walk down the aisle together

chliekm Posted:

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I was thinking its:

Grooms Parents Brides mom
Grandparents on his side
Grandparents on Bride's side
BM and GM
MOH
Bride

Since I don't know the family dynamic its hard to give the right answer... I think that the with step parents, it totally depends on how they are with everyone. If any parents are re-married each can walk in with spouse or if you and FH don't want them involved, then the step parents don't have to walk down the aisle at all.

As for the dad's new wife I would ask your mom about if she would want her to walk down the aisle since the dad walks the bride in.. unless you want her too.. also, it probably would change if the step parents are significantly helping out with the wedding.. then I'd prob say try to include them with that.



*Edited for Step Parents
Blonde_Glitz Posted:

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My friend who got married 2 years ago did this.

Groom and Best Man
Seating of the grooms grandparents
Seating of the brides grandparents
Seating of the grooms father & Stepmother
Seating of the grooms mother (she was walked down by one of the ushers)
Bridal Party
Bride w/ both of her parents

You can do any variation you want.
pjc92980 Posted:

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i dont think there is a right or wrong way...its your wedding do what you want!

here was our processional:

grandparents
step mother with groomsman
bridal party
best man/maid of honor
groom with parents
flower girl
me with parents
janelle Posted:

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Thanks everyone. This was helpful!

MsRtoMrsK Posted:

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We did this:

1. Grooms aunt wheeling grooms grandfather
2. Grooms parents (walked down together even though they are divorced)
3. My dad, stepmom, and grandmother
4. My stepdad, his mom, and he wheeled his dad (I consider them my grandparents)
5. Bridesmaids/groomsmen
6. Maid of Honor
7. Matron of Honor
8. Mom and I

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