Recently I have had a change of heart about getting married at the hall, I really want to get married at a church now. But I don't know if it too late, and also will the church get mad that I didn't go to them first or will they be okay that I have suddenly had a change of heart??
TIA
RitasEngaged
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look for churches - they don't need to know you have a hall
MongieToBe
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Can't you just tell them you'd like to get married on _______ date & not say you originally planned to do it at the RH??
Dazzlin217
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Posted by RitasEngaged
look for churches - they don't need to know you have a hall
So if I go into the church, I shouldn't tell them I already have a date picked and a hall?
GR2010
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The church may act all offended but whatever. It's your day. Your hall may apply your ceremony fee to extras, that is what ours said they would do if we decided to get married in a church after the fact.
Dazzlin217
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Posted by MongieToBe
Can't you just tell them you'd like to get married on _______ date & not say you originally planned to do it at the RH??
well i was going to do that and then i was talking to my friend at work, and she said to maybe go to the chuch and tell that recently you have had a change of heart and you would really like to get married at the church, do you think i could do that? or go there and not tell them i have a date yet
Dazzlin217
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Posted by GinaRandy2010
The church may act all offended but whatever. It's your day. Your hall may apply your ceremony fee to extras, that is what ours said they would do if we decided to get married in a church after the fact.
well its an extra $500 if we decide to get married at the RH but we didnt pay for it yet.
That's what i am concerned about htat the church will be offended
jmgoncal
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I would go to the church and not say anything about already having booked the hall. It's just easier than having to deal with a possibly annoyed priest. Just tell them the date you were 'thinking' and go from there.
elp6421
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This same thing happened to me. Luckily, I told the RH that I was still undecided about the ceremony so I did not lose any money there and the church was available. Go to the church you are interested in first!
NanandEric08
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Go to the church but I definitely don't think you should tell them that you originally were getting married at the hall. Just see if that have the day open. My church questioned us regardless about why we wanted to get married at a church!
