Cheating?

Okay, Ive been cheated on before....But has anyone ever CHEATED on soemone else? Ever considered cheating on your fh?

My friend just told me that she had an affair with someone from work. She is engaged now for 5 months and she said she was 'tempted'

I dont know why but i couldnt ever do that to my fh. Its something that so far has never come up....

Anyone else have a different view?

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Posted by MrsFazz2B

Tahts waht I said to her. She said however, she knows that she wants to be with him and doesnt doubt it but that, in her words 'Well, it somethign i can do before i get married. Just to say i did'

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Just to say she did??? That sounds so strange to me. She is obviously not ready to marry this man. I feel sorry for both of them. Its just not right.

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Posted by Cacarina

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Posted by MrsFazz2B

Tahts waht I said to her. She said however, she knows that she wants to be with him and doesnt doubt it but that, in her words 'Well, it somethign i can do before i get married. Just to say i did'

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Just to say she did??? That sounds so strange to me. She is obviously not ready to marry this man. I feel sorry for both of them. Its just not right.

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No its not. And that guy adores her. I was just very upset about it

Thats so weird. I have never cheated on the two people I've been with. In fact my first relationship he cheated on me. And my second is FH and we are both SO in love and happy we both talk about it all the time...like how we have friends who are so unhappy and cheat and we both think if you want to cheat...just leave the person b/c you're obviosly not happy. I dunno people are crazy

That's so sad! I only cheated on one person one time and it was with my FH! So that told me something. He is my best friend and we were meant to be together. The other guy I was with most likely cheated on me from what I have been told and I cheated on him by kissing my FH. Oh, well- we wised up and are now together. I feel sorry for that girl's fiance

i would never, i was cheated on so many times that i cant do that to some that i ones

Nope. I gave him my heart for a reason and I'm wearing his ring for a reason.

I would never.

I got my heart broken by my ex who was dating another girl for a few months shortly after our 3 yr anniversary. It made me sick and I couldnt eat after the breakup. I would never want to do that to FH-ever!

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Posted by MrsFazz2B

Okay, Ive been cheated on before....But has anyone ever CHEATED on soemone else? Ever considered cheating on your fh?

My friend just told me that she had an affair with someone from work. She is engaged now for 5 months and she said she was 'tempted'

I dont know why but i couldnt ever do that to my fh. Its something that so far has never come up....

Anyone else have a different view?

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and not to mention, I would be consumed with guilt. I cant ever keep a secret from him. I just love him too much.

I've been cheated on with a past relationship. But, I have never cheated on anyone.

Also, your friend needs to re-evaluate her relationship with future husband to be

I would never ever ever cheat on FH......never cheated on anyone for that matter.... I did fall for my FH while I was dating someone else, but never let it go further then friends with FH, until I had broken up with the guy I was currently with.

I have never even looked at another guy 'like that' since I met FH. To me he is the most attractive person in the world, and the only man I need.... this ring on my finger means...
'FOREVER ONLY YOU'
It's a silly little saying that we stole from All Myy Children, the soap im addicted to lol lol lol lol

i cheated on one of my past boyfriends but only because he had been cheating on me pretty much the whole relationship.. so there was nothing there.. otherwise i would have NEVER cheated.

but when it comes to fh i dont even think about it. i have no desire to be with anyone else, and i really dont even look much at other guys. what i have now is not worth risking at all.

just to say she did it sounds really strange to me. i dont really think thats something that people go bragging around about..

I was never cheated on with past boyfriends (so I think) and FH I never doubted from the second I met him. And No I would never cheat on him, too much to risk and I could never look at him knowing I hurt him. He is so loyal to me - omg this post just made me tear a little...PMS maybe?

ive suspected that i was cheated on by my ex... he would deny it till this day im sure...

and i have cheated on fh... in the beg of our relationship, which would have made me about 18 so can still plea the young and dumb argument... I cant keep anything for him so i wound up tellin him like the next day... it took litterally like years to get that trust back... Never would i have gotten engaged if i still felt like i needed to go out and 'experience' other guys!

ive cheated on past boyfriends, but i wouldnt even call it like 'boyfriends' i was in high school anyway, and they cheated on me as well, so we both knew we were playing each other lol
as for FH, i havent, but ive gotten to be friends with guys in college that have wanted to, but i dont think i could ever do that to FH, isnt worth it at allll

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Posted by MrsFazz2B

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Posted by Cacarina

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Posted by MrsFazz2B

Tahts waht I said to her. She said however, she knows that she wants to be with him and doesnt doubt it but that, in her words 'Well, it somethign i can do before i get married. Just to say i did'

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Just to say she did??? That sounds so strange to me. She is obviously not ready to marry this man. I feel sorry for both of them. Its just not right.

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No its not. And that guy adores her. I was just very upset about it

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wow just to say 'she did'. thats horrible, she should think about if she really loves her FH, and the being 'tempted' card wouldnt work with me...because you shouldnt put yourself in the situtation to be 'tempted' , im sure she wouldnt like it if FH was in a 'tempting' situtation w/some girl