Check I forgot about!

All of my bridal party will be out of towner's but I saw two girls and them to be in the wedding when I was home on leave last month. But I was too busy to get the other two out of towners their gifts so I wrote out the cards and had my mom send them.

So as of last week, all 4 girls got their gifts and said yes to being in the Bridal party, yay!

The only problem I have now is I have a good friend who I lost touch with, but I was in her wedding in 09, who I didn't ask and I don't want to offend her, so I want to ask her to be a reader. And another friend who I'm not that close with, but I think she thought she would be asked, so I don't know what to do about her.

But yay at least my side is done with, and now onto everything else

YAY!!!

About the other friend, back in Minnesota we have girls called personal attendants? Do you have them out here????

Yay!!!!!

It is hard when people assume they will be part of the BP.. and its hard to not offend people... I've offended many in this planning process lol

Well she hasn't said anything about being in it but long story short my college roommate asked me to be in her BP and her wedding was last month. This other girl was the MOH, and the three of us have always been good friends but I'm just not AS good of friends with her.

Well when I asked my friend to be a BM she was like OMG do you know that I thought you were going to ask Steph instead of me and I was freaking out at the wedding!!

She still hasn't told me why she thought that, but I think the other girl thinks me and her are as good as friends as me and my actual BM. I loooove this girl, but I can't have a bigger BP because FH doesn't have enough friends.

I also don't know if I want her to be a reader because I don't think she'd be good speaking in front of a large group of people, she has a bit of a screechy voice, but I want her at all the BP stuff.