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Is it ok not to invite them even if they are family and are being invited to the wedding? I want to have my shower in a restaurant and I think the limit is 40 people for the private room. My guest list is 29 w/o the kids.. Even if I invited kids, I would only invite the girls right? But that would still bring me over 40...or close. I honestly would rather not invite them.. is that rude?
im not inviting anyone to the shower thats not invited to the wedding... so no kids under 13.
i think its fine if you dont, im only having two or 3 women bring their children (one of which's daughter is my flowergirl, and the other's son is the rb, even though shes only bringing the girls lol)
i invited kids... but not everyones kid(not intentionally).. either way...when i got back rsvp's the moms included their daughters even if they werent invited. no biggie. so even if u dont invite them, expect them to invite themselves. at that point just accept it. dont call them and say ' u cant bring her' not nice.
Posted by JAAMS
my mom wants to invite young boys-- under the age of 17-- to my shower![]()
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I don't want any little kids at mine...
FH had to fight with FMIL over this because she didn't want to invite 4 of his cousins (ages 10, 15, 17 and 22!!) because she thought they would be bored. I'm only 20! I want younger people with me, and I def wanted his 4 cousins there because I love all of them, and the 10 year old is our flower girl! After a week of arguing with her, she finally gave in and FH convinced her to invite them.
I think I will just invite our two flower girls - our nieces
i invited all female cousins and nieces. do the best u can tho.
my kids and i guest some family members kids can come
