Church Meeting

Church Meeting

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since you already rescheduled once I would say to go but if you are that mad at Fh then you should reschedule. just explain that something came up and your mind won't be where it should during the meeting. I am sure they would understand!

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Actually, I was fuming at FH on the way to our appt, in addition to arguing about something else we woke up late and I blamed him and 'how can we look like adults wanting to get married if we can't even get there on time'... and when we got there we got ourselves together and it was fine. I say just go and they're not going to ask you about your relationship or anything, at least mine didn't, it's more of a procedural thing. I say try to relax, try to talk it out tonight and just go, if you keep rescheduling the priest might question how serious you are. Consider it one of the 'trials and tribulations' of marriage!

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I would go to the meeting because I wouldn;t want to piss off the church. You can deal with him later.

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when we went i was annoyed with FH too...you wont be asked alot of questions in the meeting, just alot of personal things like address, religion, social history, mental history...nothing that really pertains as to why you want to be married.

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I had to reschedule our meeting too, and I felt like an idiot. I waited for weeks to make my appointment, and then didn't realize I had a scheduling conflict until after three separate conversations with the priest. I'd just go... you can settle whatever you're angry about later. :

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As hard as it sounds, push your anger to the back of your mind and put on a face. That's what I would do. And remember that you love your FH and that you are marrying him and maybe that will help for the time being that you are there. Then deal with him later lol. I wouldn't reschedule again.

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