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its only natural to take notice to those things but whats most important is that you don't have any desire to actually act on it and that you don't long for that other person or regret not being able to pursue it. If so, you might want to step back a little and re-evaluate what you really want. After all, why would you search for something you already have.
Posted by JTsGal829
i know how you feel. I Love FH.. but sometimes i wonder the same thing because i've only really been with one other person... i met FH when i was 20 ..so i feel sometimes like i may regret not dating ..and what if someone else comes along...
but then i think of it this way... how would i feel without FH?
could i really live without him..??
we're together around 5 yrs now.. so the chemistry and butterflies aren't the same as they used to be(and who doesn't love that feeling when u first start dating someone).. but when it comes down to it..he's there for the important things.. and in the long run that's what matters.
i'm sure what you're feeling is natural.. everyone goes through it sometimes..even when you are sure ure with the right person..!!!
I never get cold feet and am so madly, deeply in love with my FH that I don't even look at nor think of other guys this way. Did you consider that maybe you are just jittery because you are about to make a life-long commitment?
Posted by MrsDtoBe
I never get cold feet and am so madly, deeply in love with my FH that I don't even look at nor think of other guys this way. Did you consider that maybe you are just jittery because you are about to make a life-long commitment?
don't worry.. I think its only natural to feel this way..i get cold feet from time to time also..i always think 'marriage is forever' and sometimes , to be honest with you..it scares me
I have only been with FH for two years and I have dated A LOT- trust me- I am 31! And I have wondered the same thing- I think it is human nature to want the butterflies and when they have subsided a bit we start to wonder and some may even doubt- but if you look deep inside yourself and your relationship with FH you will realize you have what you have always been looking for- someone to hold your hand in good times and bad, someone to laugh with, to cry with, to share funny stories with and someone to be romantic with. If those are things you want and already have, then the rest is just fantasy and not reality. Reality is tough and it sux sometimes but I know in my heart it is ALL WORTH IT!!! It is cold feet and it is OK. You are not alone!! It will pass.(if it doesn't- then maybe we have a problem) lol j/k Cheer up!!!
Posted by lyss0908
I have only been with FH for two years and I have dated A LOT- trust me- I am 31! And I have wondered the same thing- I think it is human nature to want the butterflies and when they have subsided a bit we start to wonder and some may even doubt- but if you look deep inside yourself and your relationship with FH you will realize you have what you have always been looking for- someone to hold your hand in good times and bad, someone to laugh with, to cry with, to share funny stories with and someone to be romantic with. If those are things you want and already have, then the rest is just fantasy and not reality. Reality is tough and it sux sometimes but I know in my heart it is ALL WORTH IT!!! It is cold feet and it is OK. You are not alone!! It will pass.(if it doesn't- then maybe we have a problem) lol j/k Cheer up!!!
Posted by lyss0908
I have only been with FH for two years and I have dated A LOT- trust me- I am 31! And I have wondered the same thing- I think it is human nature to want the butterflies and when they have subsided a bit we start to wonder and some may even doubt- but if you look deep inside yourself and your relationship with FH you will realize you have what you have always been looking for- someone to hold your hand in good times and bad, someone to laugh with, to cry with, to share funny stories with and someone to be romantic with. If those are things you want and already have, then the rest is just fantasy and not reality. Reality is tough and it sux sometimes but I know in my heart it is ALL WORTH IT!!! It is cold feet and it is OK. You are not alone!! It will pass.(if it doesn't- then maybe we have a problem) lol j/k Cheer up!!!
Posted by lyss0908
I have only been with FH for two years and I have dated A LOT- trust me- I am 31! And I have wondered the same thing- I think it is human nature to want the butterflies and when they have subsided a bit we start to wonder and some may even doubt- but if you look deep inside yourself and your relationship with FH you will realize you have what you have always been looking for- someone to hold your hand in good times and bad, someone to laugh with, to cry with, to share funny stories with and someone to be romantic with. If those are things you want and already have, then the rest is just fantasy and not reality. Reality is tough and it sux sometimes but I know in my heart it is ALL WORTH IT!!! It is cold feet and it is OK. You are not alone!! It will pass.(if it doesn't- then maybe we have a problem) lol j/k Cheer up!!!
GIRLS, THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! YOU GIRLS JUST REALLY PUT IT INTO PERSPECTIVE LIKE NOBODY ELSE HAS. you're absolutely right! this is why I love you girls!
I feel everyone gets like this. FH and I have been together for 8 years too. I was 18 and he was 19 and was my real only 'love'. I had dated or 'been' with other guys but still I have thought maybe I should of dated more. I realize I am wrong when I see him and then give him a big hug and it feel just right!
Posted by Soon2beAlberti
Posted by lyss0908
I have only been with FH for two years and I have dated A LOT- trust me- I am 31! And I have wondered the same thing- I think it is human nature to want the butterflies and when they have subsided a bit we start to wonder and some may even doubt- but if you look deep inside yourself and your relationship with FH you will realize you have what you have always been looking for- someone to hold your hand in good times and bad, someone to laugh with, to cry with, to share funny stories with and someone to be romantic with. If those are things you want and already have, then the rest is just fantasy and not reality. Reality is tough and it sux sometimes but I know in my heart it is ALL WORTH IT!!! It is cold feet and it is OK. You are not alone!! It will pass.(if it doesn't- then maybe we have a problem) lol j/k Cheer up!!!
I'm sorry!! I didn't mean to make you cry. I just truly meant every word and wanted you to know you are not alone- I have felt what you are feeling and you just have to trust in your love with FH and know that it is meant to be!
you have me crying like a baby right now! THANK YOU!!
Posted by lyss0908
I'm sorry!! I didn't mean to make you cry. I just truly meant every word and wanted you to know you are not alone- I have felt what you are feeling and you just have to trust in your love with FH and know that it is meant to be!
for some reason this didn't post on my above post lololol I guess I write too much!![]()
Posted by Soon2beAlberti
Posted by lyss0908
I'm sorry!! I didn't mean to make you cry. I just truly meant every word and wanted you to know you are not alone- I have felt what you are feeling and you just have to trust in your love with FH and know that it is meant to be!
for some reason this didn't post on my above post lololol I guess I write too much!![]()
lol. if i could hug u through my screen i would. i just can't wait for FH to come home so I can hug him...I just hope i don't cry when i do it...he's gonna think i'm a freak!
