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Cold feet.. in my sleep!

JennyAPH Posted:

Cold feet.. in my sleep!

Hi ladies...

For the past week I have had dreams everynight that I call off the wedding or something goes wrong and we dont end up getting married!! Its so weird cause when I am awake I am 100% positive I want to marry my FH and he is the one...but apparently my brain doesn't think so when I am asleep!

Should I just ignore this and consider it my brains way of having some 'cold feet'? Its bothering me alot I don't want to go to sleep anymore
FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

Re: Cold feet.. in my sleep!

Every couple has some kind of issues...Maybe in the back of your mind, something is really bothering you and coming out in your dreams... It might not be that serious as not wanting to marry FH, but it could be something in your rel that makes you question things from time to time... and I think thats normal.

browneyes Posted:

Re: Cold feet.. in my sleep!

Sometimes i have the same types of dreams.,. I dont think it means you dont want to marry ur FH its just alot of changes and ur brian is just playing all the 'what ifs',. As long as you know :when ur awake: haha that ths is the one for you then dont worry there just dreams! Good Luck

coldasice217 Posted:

Re: Cold feet.. in my sleep!

I think it's normal...it's a big life change, and even if you're not nervous in your concious state, if you're excited or have 'good' nerves, it's bound to manifest in your sleep. I wouldn't worry about it too much, unless it gets to the point where you have these thoughts while you're awake, or the thoughts prevent you from falling asleep at night.

JennyAPH Posted:

Re: Cold feet.. in my sleep!

yeah I know i think its anxiety.. cause lately I can't help but feel like I am totally missing to do something.. and I also start to doubt my dress and colors etc. I think i need a break from wedding stuff... and maybe from LIW (not sure if that will happen!!)

mandab Posted:

Re: Cold feet.. in my sleep!

OMG!! I had a cold feet dream the other night too!!! And I feel the same way, 100% sure that I'm meant to be with my hunny!! I think it's just part of the wedding nightmares us crazy brides have to deal with!!! I'm not really thinking about it too much...if you're sure, your'e sure!!

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