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commitment issues?
guitarstikibars
Posted: Feb 27, 2014 01:17 PM+

Posted: Feb 27, 2014 01:17 PM
commitment issues?
Not with FH ... With any and all wedding accessories! Is anyone else experiencing this? I literally can't make my mind up on anything. Earrings, shoes, clutch, etc. I'm driving myself insane!!
Vilardi82
Posted: Feb 27, 2014 01:29 PM+

Posted: Feb 27, 2014 01:29 PM
commitment issues? - Long Island Weddings
Same here!!! I have tried on a million head pieces and cant decide which I want....Some days I think I don't want anything. I don't want to regret my choice and its so hard to pick something out without your dress on.
Lguido
Posted: Feb 27, 2014 01:38 PM+

Posted: Feb 27, 2014 01:38 PM
commitment issues? - Long Island Weddings
I've been the same! It's so hard sometimes!
Alimm729
Posted: Feb 27, 2014 01:42 PM+

Posted: Feb 27, 2014 01:42 PM
commitment issues? - Long Island Weddings
I can't even commit to bridesmaids dresses, I haven't even started on anything else!
meejack1110
Posted: Feb 27, 2014 01:57 PM+

Posted: Feb 27, 2014 01:57 PM
commitment issues? - Long Island Weddings
I bombard my friends/bridal party/family with endless texts showing them the millions of photos of accessories that I can't decide on. And even when I decide, I change my mind. LOL I finally bit the bullet and decided on a bag. Shoes I ended up with two pairs of, and I can't even think about jewelry yet lol. You are not alone!
cets1290
Posted: Feb 27, 2014 02:47 PM+

Posted: Feb 27, 2014 02:47 PM
commitment issues? - Long Island Weddings
i thought you had kate spade shoes?? They are gorgeous so don't change your mind! loli had a hard time with the earrings and bracelet, and went to nordstrom, bloomies, and macy's with no luck. I went to tri county and found my jewelery in one of the kiosks there so maybe you'll have some luck there
not doing a clutch though so i can't help you with that! haha I'm not carring anything that day
stefaniec84
Posted: Feb 27, 2014 03:50 PM+

Posted: Feb 27, 2014 03:50 PM
commitment issues? - Long Island Weddings
date twin...i have MAJOR commitment issues!! Can't decide on ANYTHING! Even when it came to vendors I was so scared to commit and second guessing everything.
guitarstikibars
Posted: Feb 27, 2014 04:42 PM+

Posted: Feb 27, 2014 04:42 PM
Re: commitment issues?
Posted by meejack1110
I bombard my friends/bridal party/family with endless texts showing them the millions of photos of accessories that I can't decide on. And even when I decide, I change my mind. LOL I finally bit the bullet and decided on a bag. Shoes I ended up with two pairs of, and I can't even think about jewelry yet lol. You are not alone!
this is what i was doing all day to my mom! she'd be like 'oh those are great, so pretty' and i'd be like I CANT COMMIT. I also found the cutest flower girl dresses at TJ Maxx, and started second guessing the ones I had already purchased ... i said forget it the others are cute and i'm NOT CHANGING MY MIND AGAIN.
guitarstikibars
Posted: Feb 27, 2014 04:43 PM+

Posted: Feb 27, 2014 04:43 PM
Re: commitment issues?
Posted by cets1290
i thought you had kate spade shoes?? They are gorgeous so don't change your mind! lol
i had a hard time with the earrings and bracelet, and went to nordstrom, bloomies, and macy's with no luck. I went to tri county and found my jewelery in one of the kiosks there so maybe you'll have some luck there
not doing a clutch though so i can't help you with that! haha I'm not carring anything that day
haha i do have the KS shoes, but then i went to lord & taylor today and they had the betsey johnson ones i've always wanted to try on, so i did and i LOVED them ... plus they have a blue sole so that can be my something blue. i think i'll return the KS ones and use the credit for jewelry or maybe a clutch.
new shoes are in my album ... i think they are more ME. i promise i'll have a pedicure the day of
guitarstikibars
Posted: Feb 27, 2014 04:50 PM+

Posted: Feb 27, 2014 04:50 PM
Re: commitment issues?
Posted by stefaniec84
date twin...i have MAJOR commitment issues!! Can't decide on ANYTHING! Even when it came to vendors I was so scared to commit and second guessing everything.
what i find interesting about myself is that i had no problem committing to vendors. with them, i knew exactly what i want. but it's these little details that i feel like i will regret unless i get the decision absolutely right!
emmac
Posted: Feb 27, 2014 07:03 PM+

Posted: Feb 27, 2014 07:03 PM
commitment issues? - Long Island Weddings
You have to stop shopping, that is what I had to do, stop looking at everything. I love the bj shoes too, but I went with the Benjamin Adams blingy ones.
MRSempressin2014
Posted: Feb 27, 2014 07:52 PM+

Posted: Feb 27, 2014 07:52 PM
commitment issues? - Long Island Weddings
I committed on my Aisle Runner today - can't wait to see how it comes out!!! But yeah, i'm in the same boat with a lot of other things! I have been bombarding my floral person, my BM… they think I'm crazy! lol
cets1290
Posted: Feb 27, 2014 08:18 PM+

Posted: Feb 27, 2014 08:18 PM
Re: commitment issues?
Posted by guitarstikibars
Posted by cets1290
i thought you had kate spade shoes?? They are gorgeous so don't change your mind! lol
i had a hard time with the earrings and bracelet, and went to nordstrom, bloomies, and macy's with no luck. I went to tri county and found my jewelery in one of the kiosks there so maybe you'll have some luck there
not doing a clutch though so i can't help you with that! haha I'm not carring anything that day
haha i do have the KS shoes, but then i went to lord & taylor today and they had the betsey johnson ones i've always wanted to try on, so i did and i LOVED them ... plus they have a blue sole so that can be my something blue. i think i'll return the KS ones and use the credit for jewelry or maybe a clutch.![]()
new shoes are in my album ... i think they are more ME. i promise i'll have a pedicure the day of
ohh those are really nice shoes too! Both pairs are gorgeous!
guitarstikibars
Posted: Feb 27, 2014 08:27 PM+

Posted: Feb 27, 2014 08:27 PM
Re: commitment issues?
Posted by emmac
You have to stop shopping, that is what I had to do, stop looking at everything. I love the bj shoes too, but I went with the Benjamin Adams blingy ones.
i actually have stopped shopping for the past month and a half since i was laid off ... today was the first day i went to look at some things since i start my new job monday!
but yeah, definitely taking breaks helps!
guitarstikibars
Posted: Feb 27, 2014 08:28 PM+

Posted: Feb 27, 2014 08:28 PM
Re: commitment issues?
Posted by cets1290
Posted by guitarstikibars
Posted by cets1290
i thought you had kate spade shoes?? They are gorgeous so don't change your mind! lol
i had a hard time with the earrings and bracelet, and went to nordstrom, bloomies, and macy's with no luck. I went to tri county and found my jewelery in one of the kiosks there so maybe you'll have some luck there
not doing a clutch though so i can't help you with that! haha I'm not carring anything that day
haha i do have the KS shoes, but then i went to lord & taylor today and they had the betsey johnson ones i've always wanted to try on, so i did and i LOVED them ... plus they have a blue sole so that can be my something blue. i think i'll return the KS ones and use the credit for jewelry or maybe a clutch.![]()
new shoes are in my album ... i think they are more ME. i promise i'll have a pedicure the day of
ohh those are really nice shoes too! Both pairs are gorgeous!
thank you!!
lizzyro
Posted: Feb 27, 2014 08:46 PM+

Posted: Feb 27, 2014 08:46 PM
commitment issues? - Long Island Weddings
I bought accessories but have been tempted to swap them out. The details are always the hardest to decide on
Alimm729
Posted: Feb 27, 2014 09:43 PM+

Posted: Feb 27, 2014 09:43 PM
commitment issues? - Long Island Weddings
I LOVE the new shoes!!
MelLynn
Posted: Feb 27, 2014 09:48 PM+

Posted: Feb 27, 2014 09:48 PM
commitment issues? - Long Island Weddings
I change my mind daily. I thought I found shoes and when I went to try them on I found another pair and Im set on those (for the moment). My DOJ I cant decide if I want pearls or rhinestones. I feel like pearls will compliment my dress more but I like the bling more. Im definately driving my mom and girls nuts.
coffeeisgreen
Posted: Feb 28, 2014 12:02 AM+

Posted: Feb 28, 2014 12:02 AM
commitment issues? - Long Island Weddings
I love the new shoes!!
Star625
Posted: Feb 28, 2014 12:59 AM+

Posted: Feb 28, 2014 12:59 AM
commitment issues? - Long Island Weddings
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