Confess... how many of you already

AJsMommy122 Posted: Apr 29, 2004 12:06 PM

Confess... how many of you already

pretend your married?!?!?!
I dont really pretend but b/c we live together and have a son, people just assume so I usually dont correct them. Also some of the bills are in his name so when I have to call and they ask who I am I say HIS WIFE!!! hahaha I like hearing them call me Ms. Z

Julestrd Posted: Apr 29, 2004 12:10 PM

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I do!! I DO!!

shelly3950 Posted: Apr 29, 2004 12:11 PM

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I do it for bills and stuf since we do live together and some bills are in his name. But thats it. Most of our doormen already think we're married, but when I ask for him I call him my fiance. 4 months from today and it will be official!

kel2004 Posted: Apr 29, 2004 12:13 PM

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We don't, b/c we don't live together yet. But my FH is moving into our new apartment this weekend, and when he set up the account with LIPA, they asked him his wife's name, and he just said my name!

hbradio Posted: Apr 29, 2004 12:14 PM

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We dont, although we lived together for a long time now. I just dont want to jinx it!!!!

Once though when we went on vacation they had our name on the hotel sheet as Mr & Mrs S - it looked so funny!

AJsMommy122 Posted: Apr 29, 2004 12:15 PM

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Posted by kel2004

We don't, b/c we don't live together yet. But my FH is moving into our new apartment this weekend, and when he set up the account with LIPA, they asked him his wife's name, and he just said my name!

hahah dont you love that?? FH just one day after we got engaged started calling me his wife.. its soooo funny b/c hes so used to it that when he talks to wedding vendors he goes ' oh let me talk to my wife about it' and they look at him strange!! Im constantly like we are not married yet!!! lol
his answer is whats the difference a piece of paper? I'll write it down for you

sammi102 Posted: Apr 29, 2004 12:22 PM

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I definitely do! It's too much to say I'm his fiance and we will be married and so forth...

FeliciaDA Posted: Apr 29, 2004 12:38 PM

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I do this a lot!! We already refer to each other as 'my hubby/ my wifey' .. its probably sickening to those around us! It really started when we moved in together, and I certainly dont correct anyone who calls me 'Mrs P' I love it!

For some reason, I never got comfortable saying 'My fiance' .. I hardly ever call him that, just don't like that term for some reason! I either say my boyfriend or my future hubby .. weird I know

JimmysBride Posted: Apr 29, 2004 12:42 PM

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I wish!! We don't live together yet either so that makes it a little tougher but he does it pretty much whenever he can and I just melt whenever he does... like if a telemarketer calls he always says 'Oh, my wife handles all that so you have to talk to her!'

A friend of his asked him to golfing to Myrtle and he said 'I have to check with the wife!'.

Ah... I love it!

diamondgrlie Posted: Apr 29, 2004 12:42 PM

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We have lived together for 4 years but we dont do that. When we were together about a year, Christmas came around and I got him a to my husband card and he got all wierd and freaked out so that made me save the 'hubby' thing until we were married.

RedHead Posted: Apr 29, 2004 12:43 PM

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sometimes to the people who live in our condo complex..
because as much as i correct them..they keep calling him my husband
So i gave up

Rainmama Posted: Apr 29, 2004 01:16 PM

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We do..all the time. Especially since we have a daughter together, I'll refer to him as my 'husband' instead of 'boyfriend' or 'fiance' (for some reason I hate that word!)
It also depends what the circumstance is and who I'm speaking to.

kgermano Posted: Apr 29, 2004 01:18 PM

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Sometimes we'll say it. I do usually call him my finace even though I really think it sounds weird. One time when my car got broken into at the train station I was on the phone with the cops and I said something like, 'I'm in front of the train station with my husband' so they could locate us. It was so funny cause after he smiled and said 'you called me your husband!'

cocoa Posted: Apr 29, 2004 05:31 PM

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kinda sorda...we've been together for three years and do everything together and we feel it, too.

dm24angel Posted: Apr 29, 2004 07:33 PM

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MY FH will not make phone calls, he hates it so I am listed on the cable company, the credit card companies, the IRA etc as Mrs Z....its funny!

MCDO15 Posted: Apr 29, 2004 07:59 PM

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since we live we each other for so long..we feel like we are but it's just not offical and we have seperate names

we wait for the real day to come

prncssrachel Posted: Apr 29, 2004 08:21 PM

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If I'm speaking to someone I do not know at all and I have to mention JT for some reason, I call him my husband because I HATE the word fiance and I think it underestimates his importance to call him my boyfriend

June13/04 Posted: Apr 29, 2004 08:44 PM

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I always call him my husband, it just has a nice ring to it!

nehaliasz Posted: Apr 29, 2004 09:26 PM

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last week when we took our dog to the new vet, i filled in our info as nancy and jaime w...... It was so exciting even though i was living a lie!! (I just figured it would be easier since Max goes under his Daddy's last name!)