Confidence with weight

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Posted by LousBride09

So before I start I know this probably sounds like a little crazy and I dont mean to be, but lately Ive been having trouble with confidence and feeling good about myself. I feel I'm constantly comparing myself to others as far as my weight goes and I'm not fat- I'm like 5'5 115 and a size 2/xs...so I'm complaning that I'm fat. I go to the gym all the time to tone up, etc but I come from a family of realllllllllllllllllllllllly skinny people so it makes it difficult. All my friends, coworkers are always like saying 'skinny minny' 'to me and then when I hang around mky family- ex my sister is a size 0 and super tiny, all of my cousins are really thin, and I know I'm thin but compared to them I feel huge. Like I said I know I'm in shape and thin and for the most part happy about what I look like but when I get together with my family I just feel sooo self-consious. Does anyone else feel this way?

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I wish i was a size 2! LOL

Im sorry what?....

I think u have LOW self esteem...

Trust me I WISH I WAS A SIZE 2...
I am a size 10-12....


Ur not fat chica, Im sure u look gorgeous.

A size 2 is very small. I think you might be comparing yourself to others wayyyy too much! NO ONE has the same shape, so you will always find things you see on other people you might admire.. smaller butt, bigger butt, bigger boobs, a little taller... whatever it is! Anyway.. Rather than looking at other people wishing you had something they have... just notice it, say wow she has a great 'whatever' and move on!!! You will never be satisfied with yourself is you keep up the envois thoughts... Big/small.. all women are beautiful and have certain features everyone will admire. Just be happy with YOU!

Confidence is the sexiest thing you could have

Wow a size 2. I don't think I was a size 2 even when I WAS 2!

I'm a size 12. My wedding gown is a 14.

I had body issues growing up as well. My mother was always under 100lbs and my sister followed in her footsteps. By the time i was 12 I had a D chest, a big a$$ and thighs. I had no idea where I came from and I hid my body in baggy clothes.
It took me a long time to be ok with my shape. It's hard being around people who have the body you want, but you have to work on loving you for you. You may not be a size 0, but you're sure not far off. Plus it isn't about # on the tag as much as its about how healthy you are.

Feel good about yourself and know that there are a hell of a lot of girls on here that would KILL to be a size 2!