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jjk1007 Posted: Jun 22, 2007 02:02 PM

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This may end up being a stupid question but I dont know how I should write our return address on our RSVP envelopes. Do I put both mine and FH's full name? Put one or the other? Put no name at all and just our address? I have no idea! Any advice would be greatly appreciated...

Christys0925 Posted: Jun 22, 2007 02:04 PM

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You are supposed to put one name on it. I put mine because I will be counting them. Even if you live together , you only put one. Does not matter which.

acsm Posted: Jun 22, 2007 02:04 PM

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i believe if your parents are hosting then I would use their name. (i think thats right)

If you guys are hosting, then its the bride's name.

HelenZ Posted: Jun 22, 2007 02:04 PM

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we live together, and I put just my name.

SylvieB Posted: Jun 22, 2007 02:04 PM

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I just had them put my name. We live together but he wont be worrying about the RSVP's- I will!

jjk1007 Posted: Jun 22, 2007 02:05 PM

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Ok! Thanks ladies!

chellynyc Posted: Jun 22, 2007 02:05 PM

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FH and I put both of our names on it.

SoontobeMrsO Posted: Jun 22, 2007 02:05 PM

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I used my parents name and address to be more traditional.

StarryEyedBride Posted: Jun 22, 2007 02:06 PM

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We live together and I put both our names on the response envelope. My aunt, who is getting married next month, did the same thing.

JennysMOH Posted: Jun 22, 2007 02:07 PM

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Posted by SoontobeMrsO

I used my parents name and address to be more traditional.

Same here

jjk1007 Posted: Jun 22, 2007 02:07 PM

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So for the people who put both theirs and FH's name.......did it look goofy and long or did it look nice?

EGreene79 Posted: Jun 22, 2007 02:11 PM

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Posted by jjk1007

So for the people who put both theirs and FH's name.......did it look goofy and long or did it look nice?

I ended up just putting my name because of this - when they wrote it out it looked to long. Besides, I'm doing all the work for this anyway

dancerandchef Posted: Jun 22, 2007 02:13 PM

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I put my name and my address because I was keeping track of the information.

It is totally up to you how you would like the RSVP envelopes to look. I don't think there would be a problem having both of your names on it but just have one address on it so that all RSVP's goes to the same address. I hope I helped you out a little.

~dancer~
charlotte

ErinC0119 Posted: Jun 22, 2007 02:14 PM

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Posted by jjk1007

So for the people who put both theirs and FH's name.......did it look goofy and long or did it look nice?

My DOC suggested:

The Future Mr. and Mrs. David XXXXX
Our address

It came out really cute i should have put my parents address but i didnt.

bellaro782 Posted: Jun 22, 2007 02:21 PM

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My Parents name and address where the Return address

bettybcafe Posted: Jun 22, 2007 04:13 PM

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Posted by Christys0925

You are supposed to put one name on it. I put mine because I will be counting them. Even if you live together , you only put one. Does not matter which.

I agree. You both might be hosting but I would just put one name...prob. urs.

MJDoc12 Posted: Jun 22, 2007 04:24 PM

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Posted by chellynyc

FH and I put both of our names on it.

ditto--we BOTH paid for it, so we BOTH had our names on it.

MJDoc12 Posted: Jun 22, 2007 04:30 PM

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Posted by jjk1007

So for the people who put both theirs and FH's name.......did it look goofy and long or did it look nice?

we just had it on a separate line each. it might not have been 'etiquette' but damnitt we were hosting and paying, we both deserved our names on there.