confused

JAAMS Posted: Jul 06, 2010 09:56 AM

confused

Ok..so FH's aunt and her husband have two children. Both kids are in the bridal party. So we are inviting the two children and parents to the rehearsal dinner.

Future-aunt-in-law's husband was previously married, and had a son. He's an adult (22ish) and has a girlfriend. He hasn't lived with them since he was rather young, but does have a relationship with the family now.

Am I supposed to invite this son and his gf to the rehearsal dinner too?

We're just having parents, grandparents, bridal party, and parents of kids in BP.

brittndave Posted: Jul 06, 2010 09:57 AM

Re: confused

if he doesn't live with them then i don't see a need to invite him

AngnShaun Posted: Jul 06, 2010 09:59 AM

Re: confused

Posted by brittndave

if he doesn't live with them then i don't see a need to invite him

this is true... but not even that... IMO if hes not in the Bridal Party and not a minor theres no reason why he should be invited at all

jmgoncal Posted: Jul 06, 2010 09:59 AM

Re: confused

I wouldn't invite him.

jennybee Posted: Jul 06, 2010 10:02 AM

Re: confused

I agree with everything said so far. You're not inviting the whole family to this...

Lsorrent Posted: Jul 06, 2010 10:06 AM

Re: confused

I wouldn't. DH's cousin was a GM, but his sisters (DH's female cousins) weren't in the BP so they weren't invited to the RD.

elisa112101 Posted: Jul 06, 2010 10:08 AM

Re: confused

Posted by AngnShaun

Posted by brittndave

if he doesn't live with them then i don't see a need to invite him

this is true... but not even that... IMO if hes not in the Bridal Party and not a minor theres no reason why he should be invited at all

ITA!!!

nwkelsey Posted: Jul 06, 2010 10:23 AM

Re: confused

I wouldn't we are only invite family and BP

Thats-What-She-Said Posted: Jul 06, 2010 10:25 AM

Re: confused

I don't think that is necessary, unless he is traveling from out of town and staying with the future inlaws. It might be a little weird for them to leave the house and leave them behind.