Controlling DH/FH

Ronnie&Theresa Posted: Jun 04, 2003 11:21 AM

Controlling DH/FH

Does anyone have one of these.
Does anyone have a partner who has a say in what you do and where you go..........

Suzanne Posted: Jun 04, 2003 11:23 AM

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Frank is SOO NOT controlling. I do what I want when I want and no one could ever tell me different. Thats probably why I am with frank, because he is so ok with that.

Latina511 Posted: Jun 04, 2003 11:25 AM

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Definetly not, we mostly do what we want to do but always check in with eachother just to know what we are each up to.

eroxgirl Posted: Jun 04, 2003 11:26 AM

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I could not/would not be in a relationship w/ a controlling man. I've dated guys who had ideas of this and I quickly stomped the idea right out of their little brains. And then kicked them to the curb! I'm too independent for that (so I've been told )

februarybride Posted: Jun 04, 2003 11:26 AM

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I wouldn't say that my DH is controlling at all. Now that we are married I do consult his opinion on things - like if I'd like to go on a weekend trip with the girls or out one night with my friends etc. For me it's a respect thing since the money comes from one pot and we share a car etc. My DH does not tell me what to do!

nrvbrd Posted: Jun 04, 2003 11:29 AM

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Honestly I will say my FH can be controlling at times, but in the sense that he likes to control situations.

Example- I wanted to book a vacation on X date- he said no we have to wait until this date because of yada yada yada.

He does try to tame it though because he knows how I am.

shamma Posted: Jun 04, 2003 11:30 AM

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Roger ties me to a chair when he leaves the house. So I do not go anywhere. I only move when he say. I have had a few beatings from him b/c I do not listen. When he says jump I say how high. I do not know why he is so, but I just love the way he controls me. He lets me out to come to work tho' so I guess he is not too controlling. What is the purpose of this thread Theresa?? if I had a controlling husband would you help me with it???

anna Posted: Jun 04, 2003 11:31 AM

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Theresa-you have to answer your own questions

Samanthas Mom Posted: Jun 04, 2003 11:33 AM

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lmao Shamma!

Craig gives his opinions like, I dont like it but I cant stop you from going there or doing X and then I just do it or go and he gets over it but he has to put his two cents in- but I then ultimately do what I wish

Lisa Rose Posted: Jun 04, 2003 11:34 AM

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LMAO @ Shamma!! That is too funny! I bet Roger couldnt hold you down even if he tried!!

Jordan Posted: Jun 04, 2003 11:35 AM

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I stopped dating controlling guys after I dumped my HS boyfriend.

LnP2003 Posted: Jun 04, 2003 11:36 AM

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pete tries & sometimes i bet he wishes he could.... but he couldn't control me if he tried!

jennbaby Posted: Jun 04, 2003 11:37 AM

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I could never imagine myself being with a controlling person, John is the exact opposite!

Ronnie&Theresa Posted: Jun 04, 2003 11:46 AM

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Anna..

Can you imagine ANYONE trying to control me..

Think again!!

Even Mom says to Ronnie GOOD LUCK!!! bEllo.
U can't ever get Theresa under raps!

Ronnie is so free.
He wouldn't ever try to control me .
I do what I want and that is why I think we are happY!!

anna Posted: Jun 04, 2003 11:49 AM

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John can never shut me up, never mind control me. Actually IM the one in control

dkga1026 Posted: Jun 04, 2003 11:51 AM

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DH is so not a controlling person that sometimes when he tries to complain about me going out too much or doing things without him, we both burst out laughing. He's so cute, he can't even say it with a straight face!

MrsTC Posted: Jun 04, 2003 11:51 AM

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My FH is exactly the same as NVRBRD

But yes he does have more of an aggressive personality than me....but we seem to balance each other out

DrmnBlnd Posted: Jun 04, 2003 11:58 AM

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My FH is so NOT controlling....we both basically do what we want, when we want, because we trust each other. I have dated controlling guys...and they S U C K!