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Couple's Assessment

2010BTB Posted:

Couple's Assessment

So my pastor has us taking this couples assement 'inventory' test online. I think I'm reading too far into some of these questions.

How would you answer this:

Our togetherness is a top priority for us.

Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Undecided
Agree
Strongly Agree

ETA: For me on one hand it definitely is a priority for us to be together and I'd work through whatever happens. But are they talking about being literally together all the time...cause that I don't agree with.

Uggghhh I'm thinking too much into these!
SoonToBeMrsCampos Posted:

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strongly agree. lol we are home-bodies and can never get sick of spending time together. (after nearly 7yrs)
SoonToBeMrsCampos Posted:

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oooh, well i took it as physical time spent together.

2010BTB Posted:

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsCampos

oooh, well i took it as physical time spent together.



That's where I'm getting confused with some of these question. You can read into them differently - oh well if we fail the test...they're still going to marry us...lol
melisslac Posted:

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Don't stress about the questions, Its mainly being used to start brining up topics that maybe you and your FH have not thought about and then it gets you guys talking about them. I took the online assessment 2 months ago for our pre-cana this weekend. Good luck!

AwaitingAugust Posted:

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hmm, i don't know ... just say 'strongly agree' since i'm sure that's the answer they want to hear lol

if it's the wrong one, tell them you misread it.

i'm such a kissass
regy_k Posted:

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

hmm, i don't know ... just say 'strongly agree' since i'm sure that's the answer they want to hear lol

if it's the wrong one, tell them you misread it.

i'm such a kissass




this just made me snort!
ye I say no matter what they mean just put down I strongly agree (I am teacher's pet too )
Matos2Conroy Posted:

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It's all in your interpretation. I would take that as more on the emotional level rather than physical. You should be fine with either agree or strongly agree. There should be no problem as long as there isn't a major discrepency between your response and FH's.

quirkybride Posted:

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I don't think a relationship can have a standardized test. They probably want to hear strongly agree. But I agree with you, I don't think it's a black and white answer.

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