And what about managers, should you invite..it is very rude to not invite?
I'm in pharmaceutical sales so I don't see my coworkers all them time...maybe 7 or 8 times year at meetings,, but there are a few I speak to on the phone a lot....
I don't want to offend anyone...what are you doing?
FutureMrsM
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It rough, I'm kind of feeling like it's all or nothing. I work in a small office and I feel like if I invite the two people that I really want to invite then I have to invite the other two... in your situation, being that you don't see them very often I would just invite the people you talk to and have a relationship with, plus your boss. I feel like if you invite anyone from work you have to invite your boss. Just my opinion, we all have different situations :)
2009Bride2Be
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I invited some from work... There are a few of us that are close friends and I even speak to them otutside of work from time to time... We go to lunch together everyday! They give me advice on the wedding, or when FH and I get into our stupid lil arguments about things... I love them and totally want them there... My manager im on the fence about... Because they already mentioned to me if I invited her they would feel very uncomfortable which puts me in an odd position... My manager is actually a REALLY kool person shes not your typical manager... And shes VERY good to me so even though they feel weird I may have to invite her anyway... =/
jennaandguy09
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this is a tough situation, I'm lucky i woke in a very small office for a doctor, so it's the doctor, myself and like 4 other people, so essentially it's one table of people, so fh and I each have one table of coworkers invited to the wedding, although my table is 10 and his is like 13, he works for a big company, but is only inviting his department, which is good. Good luck I know it seems like all or nothing but if you decided to invite some and not others , please ask them to use discretion and not talk about the wedding at work. Good Luck
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I am trying not to invite anyone because I don't want anyone to get offended...Unfortunately one of my coworkers kind of invited herself so I am probably going to have to invite her.. I am just hoping no one else has anything to say about it!
Novbride09
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I am inviting a few but whatever you can't invite everyone and I think people know that!
gbrwneyez1581
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I am inviting my 2 supervisors and 4 co-workers b/c we hangout a lot outside of wk
coldasice217
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I'm not inviting anyone from work. It's a small office, so it would have to be all or nothing. And it's just enough people that if I did invite everyone with their husbands/wives/boyfriends/girlfriends, it may be over one table, and that's not happening.
FH on the other hand is inviting coworkers, but he's also friendly with them outside of work, and, unfortunately, I have a job, but he has a career, so it's a very different situation for him if he were to not invite some people.
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I have no idea what to do....FH and I work for the same company (not the same floor/deptartment). We have the def people that are on the guest list but then what do we do with Supvs? or other people in our sections? Ugh I have no idea what to do
pa56
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I invited my immediate boss (and his wife) and then the co-workers I socialize with outside of work, since my wedding is a social non-work event.
MrsDtoBe09
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Oh lord... I'm teacher and our school is split into academies or like mini schools so I'm more or less inviting my whole floor.... about fifteen people plus guests.
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I want to invite two of my co-worked who I am close with that give me advice on the wedding, I don't know what to do about supervisors and managers though?
BarbieGrl10
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I'm inviting my boss and just a few co-workers... not all that could add another 100+ to my guest list.
KerriJohnS
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I'm probably going to invite the ones I've worked with for a long time... and the 4 people from my location but not my whole department. There are a bunch of new workers in my dept and so I'm not inviting them. It can get out of hand if I try to invite everyone. I'm sorry but for $130 pp to feel the need to invite people who I never see (except for quartely meetings) and I don't even know their last name.. it's just not somethign I'm willing to do. I suppose they would understand. I would if they didn't invite me. Actually I would probably be relieved.. ha ha.. then I don't have to give them a gift! Ha ha ha!
BTW - even me just inviting those I worked with for a long time... that's like 10 people plus guests... so 20 people in all... which to me is a lot for work people. I'm secretly hoping some people will say no or not be able to make it. Also, I'm ONLY giving STD's to like 2 people from work. JUST INCASE!
