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crazy night! ***UPDATE***

terrylovesroy Posted:

crazy night! ***UPDATE***

so i get home from work and my fi tells me his mom is upset.. That she got the invite and got upset that she was not asked to be involved.. Well if you all remember she was against us being together and getting married she almost had a heart attack, So i said this is gonna end tonight: i went to her apartment (we live in same building) and i said Roy says your upset after you got invite.. She says ' yes i feel like im being treat like im just a guest. IM like' what?! I would have loved for you to be involved in everything.. My mother passed and i am doing this on my own' so we ended up talking for 5 hours and laughing. so now she is going with me for fittings, picking Fi ring, dance lessons, walking him down aisle, putting centerpieces together and going to the tasting.. Sh*t five years we wasted cause she wanted a young Jewish girl for her son who will give her grand babies, well, your son loves older women, doesn't want kids and im catholic. Glad we straightened that out!
I get back home and Roy was so worried i threw her of the balcony! but its all good, until his sister opens her mouth

UPDATE so we went to dinner tonight and she said i wanna pay for something for the wedding, what can i pay for? photo, dj,,, we were like shocked into silence.. couldn't even answer... then she announces she will pay for our honeymoon.. to pick where ever we want to go.. she suggested Rome ..
I am a very confused girl
Kimberley2015 Posted:

crazy night!

I am so glad that the two of you were able to express how it is you felt and can now put it aside and move forward. Especially now with the wedding drawing near.

DebOst Posted:

crazy night!

That's awesome! Glad you worked everything out. It should be smooth sailing from here

mab30 Posted:

crazy night!

That's so nice that you were able to work things out. Good for you for being open and accepting of her! I've been having major issues with my soon to be in laws, so I know how hurtful it can be to not have their support and enthusiasm for the wedding!

terrylovesroy Posted:

crazy night!

she has invited us both to dinner tonight, so we shall see how it goes.. Im excited at the idea of having a 'mother figure' involved in the planing.. since mine has passed. I just dont want to get hopes up..

FutureMrsPonce Posted:

crazy night!

I'm happy to hear it's working out. It must have been extremely difficult for you to approach his mother but you did it and something positive came out of it. Best of luck!

terrylovesroy Posted:

Re: crazy night!

thank you..

katiephoto Posted:

crazy night! ***UPDATE***

I know this is easier said than done, but I say just try to go with the flow. If she's more than willing to pay for something, even better!

SweatingForTheWedding Posted:

crazy night! ***UPDATE***

Awh that's so nice everything turned out good! Rome is amazing! She has good taste! Lol

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