creepy delivery...

Original post by grrulz

Feb 11, 2009 12:14 PM

i just received flowers by mail and they are NOT Fh's????? ***? it says 'for the one love' and its typed ...lol i am soo scared i called FH and he has no idea what i am talking about...thi has happened before where at work i have received gifts too but this was long ago ...i am shaking as I type

i should throw these out right??

DWKSwed Posted: Feb 11, 2009 01:25 PM

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Yea I would just make it like an innocent 'oh there was no card I wanted to find out who sent them so I could thank them'... if they think it's a legal thing they might get concerned over privacy rights for the person who sent it. So start out with the card thing and if that fails then say 'listen I think I'm being stalked and I need to know this so I can let the cops know that this is going on' and they might feel bad and just tell you. But I'd start out with the card story because they won't think it's a big deal to tell you... they might be looking to protect themselves legally if they hear 'build a case' based on what they're going to tell you. I have seen these kinds of things happen at my job, that companies clam up because they're afraid of being sued... that's the approach I would recommend.

*ETA: If they STILL won't tell you, you can say 'well can you at least tell me if it is or isn't ____' and they might be willing to say yes or no.

AdriandSteve Posted: Feb 11, 2009 01:35 PM

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If you REALLY think he is a threat def get a restraining order.
i would also contact the florist to see if they can give any info (prob not though).

If you have security in ur building or someone who has to get the packages first then i would let them know the situation if u want.

better safe then sorry.

T E R I Posted: Feb 11, 2009 01:38 PM

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very freaky and i would call to find out who they are from

RitasEngaged Posted: Feb 11, 2009 01:43 PM

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There from me gloria......

grrulz Posted: Feb 11, 2009 01:45 PM

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oh Rita lol I am calling when i get home from work

Sandradv121 Posted: Feb 11, 2009 01:46 PM

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Ummm, please please PLEASE report him. This guy needs to stop. Your safety is number one. I would look into getting advice from a law official and lawyer now. This douche bag has gone far enough...

grrulz Posted: Feb 11, 2009 01:52 PM

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Fh is is trying to find out for me!! he is really concerned! as soon as we find out I will let you guys know thanks

JillandJoe Posted: Feb 11, 2009 02:21 PM

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weird,,,def get rid of those

JenBill61210 Posted: Feb 11, 2009 02:40 PM

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wow.. def call up the co. to see who its from.

Its2Snappy Posted: Feb 11, 2009 02:49 PM

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Aw, Gloria. Please let us know. I am worried for you.

Kimmypie143 Posted: Feb 11, 2009 03:08 PM

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I would call now i wouldnt wait until you get home! What are you waiting for

KellyGirl 2010 Posted: Feb 11, 2009 03:11 PM

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the call is coming from inside the house!

throw them away, or give them to a co-worker to give away, thats what I did when I got creepy flowers!!

grrulz Posted: Feb 11, 2009 06:57 PM

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so i found out through FH because i couldn't call while I was at work that it was not from my EX (thank god) but it was from this guy that used to work with me at work a while ago and is no longer there and we stopped talking because ugghh it will take the whole page so i don't want to go into details the point is that i don't talk to him anymore and i already spoke to him ....i feel like i am in hs all over again!

rocketsummer17 Posted: Feb 11, 2009 06:59 PM

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good thing you found out though..can never play it too safe!! Glad to know it wasnt the ex

JoanneAndJustin Posted: Feb 11, 2009 07:03 PM

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Posted by grrulz

so i found out through FH because i couldn't call while I was at work that it was not from my EX (thank god) but it was from this guy that used to work with me at work a while ago and is no longer there and we stopped talking because ugghh it will take the whole page so i don't want to go into details the point is that i don't talk to him anymore and i already spoke to him ....i feel like i am in hs all over again!

this is still creepy... and I'd still make sure creepy ex-coworkers isn't pulling any sh!t.

deanna225 Posted: Feb 11, 2009 07:04 PM

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Posted by rocketsummer17

Call the website that you got the flowers from and ask...Dont play around with this

i also agree with everyone u should def call the website.
sorry u going through this.

laurenandmike618 Posted: Feb 11, 2009 07:12 PM

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It's actually veryyyy difficult to get a RO (restraining order) on someone. In order to get a RO, you need proof that he has literally verbally or physically threatened you. The system ***** in that aspect. But do everything you can to stay safe. Even though it's not your ex, that's unbelievably creepy... so you never know if this ex-coworker has a screw loose either.

grrulz Posted: Feb 11, 2009 07:18 PM

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thank you he has never threatened me it was more along the lines that we were really good friends and i didn't know he was doing stuff with one of the supervisors i didn't know this and when she found out she made my life hell at work then i found out he liked me and he had stop talking to her so it was a whole mess because of him so i stopped talking to him he was bringing me a lot of problems at work and with FH because he would call me all the time