Is it customary to give your priest / deacon / officiant a thank you gift? You aren't supposed to tip them..right? Thanks!
JennysMOH
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For my sister's wedding we tipped the priest even though he was friend of the bride and groom. Additionally, when it comes to baptisms we have also tipped the priest.
Most priests are very appreciative of those that give them gifts. You have to remember it is not like they are rolling in dough. They can either keep it or give it to the church or they give it as a donation to their local outreach program.
For the deacon if you know what they like or if they have a hobby, a small gift would be nice. Deacons have (usually) a job outside of the church so perhaps money is not the best gift to give.
WinterBride10
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What should you tip a priest? My church told me whatever I could afford. I was shocked when they told me I had to tip on top of what they already charge. I think their price is a bit high already.
