DEAR FELLOW 2011 BRIDES

Original post by kedra5

Sep 24, 2010 12:39 AM

I'm not really sure what's happening tonight but I feel like its partially my fault.

I wrote a post earlier to Mellyrose asking where she was strictly based on making sure that everything was okay we are a community and family(as crazy and nutty as some of us are hahahaha) and when one or more of us disappear, we tend to worry. ive posted numerous times abt missing people, i know for a fact ive posted twice looking for pacie. Never was it meant in a malicious manner but again concern that everything is okay with someone you feel like youve come to know.

I'm not sure if there's something else going on with Melly or not but either way it was not meant as a malicious attack. But I certainly felt attacked and to be honest, I wasn't the only one that felt that way.

Regardless, it doesnt matter, everything escalated out of control and it shouldn't have. I feel terrible that people have gotten involved and into 'fights' that haven't needed to. Please know that just as you were defending your friend, so were my friends. No one is here under false pretenses or to make anyone unhappy, that's not what this site is for.

I'd llove for everything to just go back to the way it was, when we all got along and even if we didn't we certainly faked it very well. Ahhahahahaha. Sorry this is so long and THANK. YOU if you read it all, I just needed to get this out.

amandamichael Posted: Sep 24, 2010 09:35 AM

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see girls
this is how we should be

love when we all play nice in cyber space

DCgirl82 Posted: Sep 24, 2010 09:44 AM

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I agree with everyone here. Whatever happened is in the past and since we can't change the past, its best to move foward. I think this site is amazing and I feel like I have met some really awesome girls! AKA.. ALL OF YOU!! I don't like to see fighting and I know it does happen whether its on the internet or off it, but like Gina and others said I think people sometimes misinterpret what is being said since we are typing and anything can be take the wrong way. Like When I text someone in all caps they text me back are you mad or yelling? LoL Im like no, ooops caps haha! But anyway.. this site is for us to all support help and love each other! We are the 2011 Brides Family! I think its amazing that when you are happy, excited, upset, confused or frustrated that you can sign on post all about it and have a bunch of answers, advice, well wishes and support posted back in a matter of minutes! We should all be happy.. we are GETTING MARRIED and its almost OUR YEAR!!! YAY!!!!! Lets make this board the way it was before all this! <3 <3

'All you need is Love'

LOVE YOU ALL and thanks for always being here and helping me and others!

mollygurl24 Posted: Sep 24, 2010 09:47 AM

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Well said

mollygurl24 Posted: Sep 24, 2010 09:48 AM

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So sorry for your lost.

Moonmist09 Posted: Sep 24, 2010 09:50 AM

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OMG!!! i'm so sorry for your loss!!!

B853 Posted: Sep 24, 2010 09:51 AM

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Thank you! There are enough of my jugs for everyone

itbroi805 Posted: Sep 24, 2010 09:57 AM

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So sorry for your loss...you and your family are in our thoughts.

itbroi805 Posted: Sep 24, 2010 09:58 AM

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Kedra-don't worry about it. I agree with everyone...tones can be misinterpreted, and no matter what you do or say, people will think what they're going to think and you have no control.

Put the past behind and move on...here's to the good times ahead of us!

ETA:

allornil Posted: Sep 24, 2010 09:59 AM

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omg Pacie. I'm so sorry :(

SoonToBeMrsFox Posted: Sep 24, 2010 10:06 AM

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i'm so sorry for your loss.

AngnShaun Posted: Sep 24, 2010 10:07 AM

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I'm so sorry for your loss!!

Pacie Posted: Sep 24, 2010 10:09 AM

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thanks again girls. But what was the issue with Melly and what sounds like fighting?

Melissa1012 Posted: Sep 24, 2010 10:09 AM

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Pacie, So sorry for your loss. I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

'Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.”

VCanizalez Posted: Sep 24, 2010 10:12 AM

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iTA

Well said it DC....

Soon2BMrsJoeBear Posted: Sep 24, 2010 10:13 AM

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I'm so sorry for your loss! your family is in my thoughts and prayers!

WeezyGirl2354 Posted: Sep 24, 2010 11:18 AM

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Pacie - I'm so sorry! Hugs to you and your family! We are all here to listen if/when you are ready!!!

As for the rest of this thread -W T F happened?????? LOL I missed the whole thing lol

but whatever - i hope everyone is okay now

LaBellaVita622 Posted: Sep 24, 2010 12:33 PM

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Maria I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

THIS is exaclty what I was talking about ...none of this fighting matters... especially with what you have been going through all the heartache that has been going on in this world. These are real problems..

Pacie Posted: Sep 24, 2010 01:10 PM

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Thank you guys. I really appreciate the thoughts and prayers

FutureMrsPanuch Posted: Sep 24, 2010 01:15 PM

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Pacie: I am soo sorry for your loss.. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Your father will be with you always and he is in a better place now.....

Kendra: You have been nothing short of amazing on the boards. You always help everyone and anyone when ever you can. This is all just a bunch of BS that should not be taking place on these boards.

We are all here to help and be there for each other for the GOOD TIMES and THE BAD. its not about who youve met in person and who you havent. Its not about how many times youve posted or how few. These boards are here for ALL of us to vent, rave, celebrate and get support from girls that may be and are going through the same things you are while planning one of the most important day of your life.

If it wasnt for you girls i would be losing my mind planning my wedding. Not only do i feel like ive joined a community here but i feel like i have gained friends and family most of you I have never met, some of you I have and i couldnt be more thankful for that...

I LOVE YOU GIRLS!!! and i appreciate everything everyone does even though i dont post as much as I should.....

Panamasweet Posted: Sep 24, 2010 08:13 PM

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