FH and I had our first wedding-related argument last night. He made me so mad! He told me from day 1 that he didn't need to be involved in the 'girl stuff' (flowers, colors, etc) which I am completely fine with. But there are a few areas within the wedding I need his help on. The current most important topic being who will be our FG's, RB, GM and BM's. Everytime I ask him whether or not he wants his little cousins as FG's or not he responds 'we have time to make that decision.' To him, we have 15 months to make decisions...to me I am FREAKING OUT because I know the planning and preparation that is ahead of me. All I want to know is if he wants his cousins in the BP!!!! (I specifically need to know soon because I got personalized stuff for all the girls in the BP and if they are in the BP, I don't want to leave them out!) Anyway...if FH says 'we have time' one more time...I am going to need to slap him!
Vent over
LadyC23
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Are your FH and mine related???? Seriously, I know how you feel! Anytime I bring up 'wedding talk', its like the plague to FH.
Rosalind_75
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sorry.
my fh is involved in everything!!!
slap him once for me
2010 Fall Bride
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My FH is involved in EVERYTHING!!!! He is more like the Bride than I am! I mean I love it sometimes, but at other times I feel like SLAPPING him too!
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Posted by 2010 Fall Bride
My FH is involved in EVERYTHING!!!! He is more like the Bride than I am! I mean I love it sometimes, but at other times I feel like SLAPPING him too!
mariedsgn
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So sorry! My FH is involved in EVERYTHING!!! I've been calling him 'groomzilla'
Nichole2010
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yea, my FH along with HIS family thinks 15 months...thats a while yet! and i have plentyyyy of time..
its so annoying
gemini10
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I understand your frustration, my FH is involved in the planning & decisons but seems to think we have all the time in the world.....we have plenty of time! Can be very frustrating at times! Just the other day he said we have a year...first it's less than a year and second we are getting married in a year...decisions need to be made well before a year...don't worry I feel your pain! I even had to make a checklist to show him how much needs to be done. In his mind, he thinks all the major vendors are booked, so to him we are pretty much done - he has no clue!
cateydee
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whenever FH says something to me like that, I say 'well i guess you dont really care- then i will make the decision myself'. guilt gets him every time!
futuremrsjc2010
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Girl im going through the same thing, ive been asking my FH for weeks for the name of his family members so i can get my guest list prepared and everytime i talk to him about it, he keeps saying 'ill do it tomorrow' SMH
