Dear______________ (RSVP vent)

Sarahgetsmarried Posted: Sep 17, 2009 01:44 PM

Dear______________ (RSVP vent)

Dear guest who has not RSVP'd.

I know that its difficult for you to take the small envelope I enclosed and mail it. I know you saw that I stamped it. I know you put it on your desk/drawer/fridge/bathroom like it was nothing.

I know you are in my wedding party and have not sent it back yet.

But could you please GET OFF YOUR LAZY A$$ and just send me the F'ING RSVP back? I PUT A STAMP ON IT FOR G-D sake!!

WHY ARE YOU JUST STARING AT IT DAY AFTER DAY AND NOT SENDING IT BACK??????

And WHY/HOW did you LOOSE the RSVP? I only sent it to you 3 weeks ago. Where did you put it??

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I have like 70 people to still rsvp. For MONTHS I have been reading about this but didnt think it would happen to me.......

stupid guests!

NikkiR515 Posted: Sep 17, 2009 01:49 PM

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I feel your pain!!! That was by far the most stressful part of wedding planning for me! People S uck!!!

las1 Posted: Sep 17, 2009 02:04 PM

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I completely understand. No one in my bridal party has sent their responses back yet

FutureJOC Posted: Sep 17, 2009 02:09 PM

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Sorry! Unfortunately, it is always guaranteed to happen.

little34 Posted: Sep 17, 2009 03:31 PM

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I am so in the same boat.....my rsvp is 9/30 and i have FHs aunts telling me, 'you know Im coming why do i need to send it back?'

SO I CAN OFFICIALLY COUNT YOU IN AND BECAUSE I PAID FOR A STAMP!!!! What is wrong with people!!!!

cedesnyc Posted: Sep 17, 2009 03:33 PM

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i thought the same thing when i was reading other posts but yes.....it is a thing w/ ppl and rsvps. I had to send a whole bunch of emails reminding ppl.

its horrible....i feel your pain.

MrsGRod09 Posted: Sep 17, 2009 03:35 PM

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It truly ***** dealing with RSVP's and am still going thru nonsense with certain so i totally understand

dfw343 Posted: Sep 17, 2009 03:39 PM

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I just had a friend who looked at my invites say 'I dont need to mail the rsvp right?' I told her how it was wrong and she said she never does. I told her she is getting a direction card and that's it. lol

Some people think it's unnecessary.

Sarahgetsmarried Posted: Sep 17, 2009 04:10 PM

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Posted by dfw343

I just had a friend who looked at my invites say 'I dont need to mail the rsvp right?' I told her how it was wrong and she said she never does. I told her she is getting a direction card and that's it. lol

Some people think it's unnecessary.

WHHHYYYYY????????

unnecessary????????????

Just put it in the mail!!!!

I JUST domt get it....and honestly, I dont get why some people say 'I dont have to send it in'. Why would they think that??

Vent over.

julesrbf Posted: Sep 17, 2009 04:13 PM

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To be fair, at the first wedding I ever went to, I was also a BM, and I did the same thing. When the bride asked me to send it in, I said, 'But you KNOW I'm coming. I bought a damn dress and everything!' Just didn't realize how flippin' rude it was.

(Of course, now I see the error of my ways! Just not then.)