I cant believe how STRESSFUL wedding planning is.... O M G! I am about to lose my mind! This is TOO much!... So much stress and so much BS from many wedding guest!!! I cant stand this...
Not loving this right now... I am very mad & annoyed.... If it is not one thing, its the other!!!
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adelz
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Take it one day at a time - everything will work out slowly, and for things that don't, just remind yourself how happy you and your FH will be to commit your life to eachother on your wedding day!
nafnyc
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hey unfortunately we all have to deal with barriers along the way, but be strong and look forward to you and FH happiness!
VCanizalez
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Thanks chicas... Its just annoying right now... this is regarding the wedding guest!!! they are telling us things like 'well sit me with this person bc i dont like that person' 'Since u invited this person I wanna sit at the endof the table' 'I will bring an xtra guest k?'
I AM SO ANNOYED WITH THAT ****!!!!!!!!!!!!
adelz
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Ugh, that is annoying! At the end of the day, you and FH should sit down and figure out the list, seating chart, etc. You can never make everyone happy - but for your special day, you can make eachother happy!
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I know it should be what FH and I want right?!!! But i eve heard frm a some wedding guest 'Well since u invite X, and If you sit me with X, I dont go' and its anoyin.. WHY CANT U BE A GROWN ASSS PERSON AND DEALW ITH IT!?????? YOU WILL B COMING TO OUR WEDDING FOR US NOT FOR THEM!
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V- your wedding day will be perfect.
it will be stressful now, but in the long run it will all be perfect.
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VCanizalez
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V- your wedding day will be perfect.
it will be stressful now, but in the long run it will all be perfect.
Thanks chica.... Was it like this too? I just cant stand the fact WHY ppl are not behavng like GRWON UP!!!!! they are like teeenagers!!! 'Well u invited X, so i may not come'
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i totally understand u girl... just relax breathe n take it easy day by day n watch how everything falls into place,... i should take my own advice too lol but watch we going to have the perfect wedding lol
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I feel like this sometimes too. But then I think about the fact that it's my day and when I have a chance to get involved in some wedding activity that I like it seems to balance out. You can let guests or relatives ruin your joy.
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I have to agree it is really stressful..sometimes I just take a break from it just so that I can breathe something other than the wedding...
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Aww, hell no! If someone tells me they aren't gonna come to the wedding if they are seated near someone they don't like, then fine, open up a spot for one of my B-listers!
I go to weddings because I want to be there for the BRIDE & GROOM, not who they seat me with! My friend knew I didn't like one of her BM's and offered to move things around so I can sit somewhere else, I told her not to, because I planned on dancing and barely being in my seat - that she shouldn't worry about sh!t like that when she is busy planning the rest of her life with her husband.
Sorry for the rant ...
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I know it should be what FH and I want right?!!! But i eve heard frm a some wedding guest 'Well since u invite X, and If you sit me with X, I dont go' and its anoyin.. WHY CANT U BE A GROWN ASSS PERSON AND DEALW ITH IT!?????? YOU WILL B COMING TO OUR WEDDING FOR US NOT FOR THEM!
V our weddings are in September - why are they already asking you to discuss seating plans! Talk to the hand cause this bride is making the plan!!!!!
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Aww dont be so stressed over crap like that. People suck and they hate it when the day isnt about them so they make everyone else miserable.
If someone says they arent coming because they're seated near person X, they wont know until the day of the wedding and by that point its too late. Eff what they say, they can be adults for one day.
As for the extra guests my sister used the best solution. On the response card put ' ___ Seat(s) have been reserved in your honor' that way it solves the guest problem.
Hunny it's YOUR WEDDING, YOUR DAY, and unless they pay they have NO say whatsoever. And if they're too selfish for that then they dont deserve to be invited.
VCanizalez
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Aww, hell no! If someone tells me they aren't gonna come to the wedding if they are seated near someone they don't like, then fine, open up a spot for one of my B-listers!
I go to weddings because I want to be there for the BRIDE & GROOM, not who they seat me with! My friend knew I didn't like one of her BM's and offered to move things around so I can sit somewhere else, I told her not to, because I planned on dancing and barely being in my seat - that she shouldn't worry about sh!t like that when she is busy planning the rest of her life with her husband.
Sorry for the rant ...
YES! that is what i am talking about!!!! Be a grown up and deal with it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wish my guest were like U
VCanizalez
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I know it should be what FH and I want right?!!! But i eve heard frm a some wedding guest 'Well since u invite X, and If you sit me with X, I dont go' and its anoyin.. WHY CANT U BE A GROWN ASSS PERSON AND DEALW ITH IT!?????? YOU WILL B COMING TO OUR WEDDING FOR US NOT FOR THEM!
V our weddings are in September - why are they already asking you to discuss seating plans! Talk to the hand cause this bride is making the plan!!!!!
I know right?!! We have Got CALLS already... CANT U BELIEVE IT? Its EFFIN ANNOYING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LET ME ALONE!!!! LET ME PLAN MY WEDDING THE WAY I WANT TO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
=-( This is fkin insane!!!
VCanizalez
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Aww dont be so stressed over crap like that. People suck and they hate it when the day isnt about them so they make everyone else miserable.
If someone says they arent coming because they're seated near person X, they wont know until the day of the wedding and by that point its too late. Eff what they say, they can be adults for one day.
As for the extra guests my sister used the best solution. On the response card put ' ___ Seat(s) have been reserved in your honor' that way it solves the guest problem.
Hunny it's YOUR WEDDING, YOUR DAY, and unless they pay they have NO say whatsoever. And if they're too selfish for that then they dont deserve to be invited.
Thank you chica... I willt ell that to FH ... this is anoyying hope this works... I know rit? WE ARE PAYING FOR THIS! ITS OUR DAY! They need to be grown up & deal with it!!!! hope it wokrs!!!
