Dear.... ((UPDATE)).. at the bottom of post..

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Posted by Novia09

Dear FORMER Matron of Honor:

I assumed that you were aware that there is an expense when it comes to being in a bridal party, we are also fully aware that you, your husband AND child are all in the bridal party hence why we're picking up the tab on your husband's tux AND child's tuxedo. So technically you are only paying for YOUR dress and shoes..

Not ONCE did you mention an issue with contributing money towards the wedding shower while the girls were throwing numbers at people asking for opinions. If you were on a tight budget you should have spoken up just as others did during the meetings so that things could be worked out instead of acting like you were BALLIN and had all this money and didn't care how much it cost. Oh yeah I forgot, you never attended any of the meetings because you were too busy. But ACTUALLY, you were quick to email a reply when you didn't like an idea or thought of something better. I'm sorry you got offended when the girls knocked out your idea for a backyard shower when you said that they should rent a port-a-potty.

You have now pulled out of the wedding with only a few months to go becaue it is getting too PRICEY and are ASKING ME to buy the dress from you for your replacement?? ARE YOU FKING KIDDING ME?????

Do you realize that I have already printed stuff out with your name on it and now I have to RE-DO everything?? If anything you should be paying me..

Get A LIFE...

Love,
The Mad Bride

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I really cannot understand why or how someone can do this. It really makes me take caution when considering who I ask to be my BM... I hope you don't give this another thought though. You're better off without her in your wedding.

Glad you got it off your chest though and hope things get better for you....

Ugh, this makes me feel so lucky.

WHoaaaaaaaa!
I really don't understand some people!

Sorry you have to deal with all of this! Wish you nothing but good things in the upcoming months!