Anyone else feel like they are totally going into a debt they will never be able to pay off? I feel like any money we get for our wedding will have to go towards paying off credit cards rather than saving for a house.
rkl1130
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I feel like that all the time
I'm considering taking a second job just to help us out a little bit.
bellaro782
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I get Knots in my tummy all the time thinking about Money .. Its not worth the stress I dont care anymore LOL I will just get myself sick the more i think about it...
j2911
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yes! last weekend i think i had a panic attack to the point where i called up my RH and asked if there was anyway i could cancel so that i could book something else cheaper... i came out of it though and realized its just too late, but the money thing is definately getting to me too... i dont want to feel any regret that i spent too much so that we cant have a house and have to wait on it because of me!
thumper9878
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Welcome to my world. We just bought a townhome too and paying those bills and everything for the wedding is really putting us in debt. Sometimes I feel that I just should of alloped. lol..
cherish83
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No credit card bills, thank god. But betwen FH and me, we have about $60,000 in student loans and with us paying for a majority of the wedding, i do get stressed at times, thinking how we are going to do it all
Kara and Todd
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The only debt we have right now consists of one car loan (the other is paid off!) and my student loans from law school. We save a ton, and the interest on my student loans is so low, it makes no sense for me to pay them off early.
We're very lucky!
ETA - We are paying cash for our entire wedding and wouldn't have it any other way.
gaccrrm
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Thankfully for us my FH had a huge hit in overtime this year and now we are able to pay our entire wedding in cash. If this overtime never happened I think we would have had to postpone the wedding. I guess everything happens for a reason.
rkl1130
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Posted by thumper9878
Welcome to my world. We just bought a townhome too and paying those bills and everything for the wedding is really putting us in debt. Sometimes I feel that I just should of alloped. lol..
Sometimes I feel like I should've eloped too
Mizzdimple
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Its funny cuz I think FH purposely pushed me to pay off all of my debt before the wedding (except student loans)
The month after i made my last cc bill..he proposed..
But honestly everyone thinks this way..its a large amount of money
bonch20
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Posted by rkl1130
Posted by thumper9878
Sometimes I feel that I just should of alloped. lol..
Sometimes I feel like I should've eloped too
my mom gave me a dirty look when i even mentioned eloping....however, we're paying for the whole thing so she didn't really have a right to an opinion....lol
the future mrs m
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will it ever end??? we are actually do pretty well but we recognize things will be really lean for the next few years. i say- as long as we are toegtehr i am happy. peanut butter and jelly sandwiches for dinner...
mskittynj
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YEEEEEEESSSSSS!!!!!!!!! We are not really doing too great right now, things are tight!!!! The wedding cost a lot and put us in a lot of debt!
csaburro
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I feel your pain girls.......it costs so much money.....
at least now I know I have others in the same boat as us!