Dec,Jan,Feb, BRIDES

My FMIL thinks that we are going to get
s c r e w ed when we open our envelopes after the wedding. Since we are getting marred right after the holidays. For the past brides do you feel like you got ripped?
I hope we break even but if we don't I really don't care I still want my dream wedding. And usually not that many people use cash to pay for holiday gifts