I without thinking said yes to being in someone's wedding-(we're friends but not that close) her wedding is 10 months away and now with planning mine it's too much stress and $$-is it bad to decline or be in it half heartedly?
Marisa&Brian
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Posted by LaurenRich
I without thinking said yes to being in someone's wedding-(we're friends but not that close) her wedding is 10 months away and now with planning mine it's too much stress and $$-is it bad to decline or be in it half heartedly?
ouch - when did you accept ?? if it was very recently, i think you can get away w/ explaining that you did not know you'd be planning your own wedding.- However, if it's been awhile, I think you may have to stick it out
suven
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ouch - when did you accept ?? if it was very recently, i think you can get away w/ explaining that you did not know you'd be planning your own wedding.- However, if it's been awhile, I think you may have to stick it out
Ditto!!!
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i would rather know if i was her that you didnt really want to do this - rather than being in it half hearted i think you should back out now and give her time to replace you
Bunnymonkey
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decline! much better than hanging on and doing it halfhearted (and half pocket) -ly.
I would appreciate the honesty if I were her.
anjerandunder
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i would definitely tell her how you are feeling..i wouldn't want you to do anything you didn't feel like doing totally
LaurenRich
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I backed out and she seemed relieved almost-glad i did it-THANKS!
