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soontobmrsmike Posted:

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Danielle41209 Posted:

Re: Has this happened to anyone else?

I think it happens to all of us at some point or another. with FH and I, I feel like I'm doing all the planning from budget to decorations and he does nothing (little did I know that he had been researching on his own). It can get frustrating but remember that you and FH are in this together. Express your feelings to him and he might step up and help, or at least be supportive when you're having a rough day.

Finance-wise, keep him in the loop. Sometimes FH's don't keep track (unless he's a finance person) with the budget and who's paying for what. Don't let it escalate to a fight without some resolution. Make sure you're on the same page before moving on and you will be fine!

HTH
soontobmrsmike Posted:

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yeah i know!! It is silly we get over things pretty quickly!! I just think you can't take the whole planning that seriously otherwise you loose the real reason! We haven't done much planning yet but he is really good with the finance part - its just hard not to spend freely like we use to!!

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