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stephanienyc2002 Posted: May 05, 2008 11:12 PM

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thanks for letting me vent ladies. i'll try to take your advice and have a sit down.

fujamaga Posted: May 05, 2008 11:15 PM

Re: In laws crisis

aww I'm sorry you're going through this. I don't understand why people are so selfish sometimes.

Christine N Ralph Posted: May 05, 2008 11:28 PM

Re: In laws crisis

Im sorry that you are involved in a terrible situation! However I understand how you feel that the wedding has turned into them...but arent you a lil curious as to why they dont like you??? I would go and hear them out..at least make the attempt- you are all going to be family, and I think if you and fh want to continue to be a healthy couple then you should at least TRY to iron things out with them. Family is a tricky thing and espeically his brothers. You dont have to marry them, but it sounds like fh has no intention of not having a relationship with them..and you should try...Even so that you can just say listen I have tried- they still dont like me! You look like the good guy...

egem523 Posted: May 05, 2008 11:34 PM

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I understand that you are hurt. But I honestly think you should try to mend thing with FIL. If there is misunderstanding it is a perfect opportunity to get thing out in the open. I think you would be the better person if you went. In the end you if you continue with the fighting it may put a strain on the marriage and it seems that it is affecting FH very much. Put yourself in his shoes. If you he was having problems with your sisters or brother would you want him to mend things? HTH