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mosh424
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we are having the RD the night before the wedding since we have a few out of town guests including our best man
JLWSJC
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A lot of people do RD the night before or two nights before because of the OOT's. We will probably do it that way because my BM, dad and brother will be coming from Central PA and my Godfather from South Jersey amongst a few other OOT's.
You can do what you like, but I would personally want the entire BP there and I would want to make it as easy as posible for my OOT's. JMO.
rdubs
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I'm having my RD the night before and have only been to RDs the night before the wedding; however, other girls on here definitely are having their RDs a week before, a few days, before, etc....
jmgoncal
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Mine will be 2 nights before the wedding, that way I have the night before to relax and all of the OOT members of the BP will only have to get here Thursday for the Saturday wedding.
Melvin1297
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FH's family is taking care of Rehearsal dinner. Our wedding is on a Thursday so I want the rehearsal dinner on the Sunday before. My OOT family will be coming in Saturday and I don't want others to have to take off work early or rush during another day of the week so an early Sunday dinner I think is best for us.
gina409
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we did it a week b4...our wedding was on a fri and i had alot to do that week..pick up my dress..drop off stuff at rh..so i figure do it the week b4 aqnd it worked out great
jackieee
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Our wedding is Sunday, and we are having the RD Friday.
Nina1010
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This was our issue. We live in Brooklyn. FH's family (our 2 GMs) live in FL and my brother (also GM) is in the navy stationed in Greece. All are not sure when they are flying in, could be the day before. Two other GMs are in NJ, 2 BMs are in Manhattan, 1 in SI and 1 in LI. I am at a loss. We're not really having a rehearsal.
Our choices are having the Non-RD on the Sunday before we get married or the Wednesday night before the Saturday we get married. I am not stressing out over this the day before...and I think everyone will understand. When the OOT arrive (most likely at different times, etc), we will host dinner for them separately. This also lessens our stress if we break it up like this.
melilou
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thank you for all of your replies!!! I am still not sure what we will do. I just know that I dont want the added stress.
elisa112101
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Im gonna try to do it the night before but since that will be a Sat it will be tough...BM said it would probably be like n the Wed or Thur before the Wedding which is on Sun.