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I always do.
Festering about it only makes things worse.
And you can be honest and thruthful without having a fight ensue.
Festering about it only makes things worse.
And you can be honest and thruthful without having a fight ensue.
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I always say something.
But sometimes, it starts something bigger.
So - are you willing to go there? If so, then say something, if not bottle it up and scream into a pillow!![]()
But sometimes, it starts something bigger.
So - are you willing to go there? If so, then say something, if not bottle it up and scream into a pillow!
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Probably, but that's because I can't keep my damn mouth shut! If it's really bothering you, try talking about it calmly face to face. I know I have a few things that I've been biting my tongue about. I've just been waiting for an opportunity.
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I would. I think if it's really bothering you then it's not something that will just go away- it will come back up. So, better to deal with it now. HTH
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Knowing my personality, I would say something. This is only b/c I know if I hold my tongue, it will come out in some other passive aggresive form, when I should have just said something from the beggining.
That said, if you are better at letting things go and you know it would be a waste, then let it go but if you think it will benefit the both of you then you should say something.
That said, if you are better at letting things go and you know it would be a waste, then let it go but if you think it will benefit the both of you then you should say something.
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I always say something ..... never hold anything in
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It depends I guess. I do think, however, that holding it in can just create more problems later on. Maybe you can talk about it in a way that wouldn't cause a fight????
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eh. Depends on what it was. If it's not worth getting into a fight over then probably not.
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honestly it really depends on who i would be saying something to.
if it was something between FH & I, I always say whats on my mind even if it starts a fight because I always feel the air is clearer after & because I can not keep secrets from FH.
when it comes to family & friends I tend to keep whatever is bothering me to myself or talk it over with FH.
if it was something between FH & I, I always say whats on my mind even if it starts a fight because I always feel the air is clearer after & because I can not keep secrets from FH.
when it comes to family & friends I tend to keep whatever is bothering me to myself or talk it over with FH.
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Posted by kris_gets_hitched
I always do.
Festering about it only makes things worse.
And you can be honest and thruthful without having a fight ensue.
I agree, the longer you hold it in the worse it can get. Then when you are ready to discuss this, you will bring other issues into it, and it can only be downhill from there. .
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what if you already spoke about it and it got resolved.. but then something happened that just opened up a can of worms again???![]()
Hmm - I would say something along the lines of, 'I thought this was taken care of, but you seem to not want to let it go. What can we do to bury this issue for good?'
This is like the nicest, calmest way of saying something. I would prob yell 'Why do you keep beating a dead horse! Let it go!'
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I always do because if I don't, it builds up and ends up coming up like word vomit the next time that person does something that pisses me off. Plus, once I say something, I usually feel relieved because it's not eating away at me anymore
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I see we're having a similar day. Someone really pissed me off this morning and I just walked away and now it's driving me crazy.
If you can talk to the person about the situation in a nice way without cursing them out, then maybe you should speak to them or else you'll be annoyed about it like I am right now.
If you can talk to the person about the situation in a nice way without cursing them out, then maybe you should speak to them or else you'll be annoyed about it like I am right now.
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I always do... if its bothering you then its worth the fight. JMHO.
good luck!
good luck!
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I see we're having a similar day. Someone really pissed me off this morning and I just walked away and now it's driving me crazy.
If you can talk to the person about the situation in a nice way without cursing them out, then maybe you should speak to them or else you'll be annoyed about it like I am right now.
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i always say something, and it's NEVER worth it.
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Depends on who it is. If it's related to FH...yes...I just come out with it. If it's a friend, I wil usually keep quiet and just vent to someone else I can trust
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I totally would say something - but I would be very cautious of my tone while saying it if I didnt want to start a fight. I have been told that I need to work on my tone when I express my distaste in things. ![]()
