Awww... in some circles (like, big time etiquette circles) it's rude to send the registry info with the shower invite. So, don't worry... people will call and ask and those throwing the the shower will tell them.
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Right there with ya!
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Awww... in some circles (like, big time etiquette circles) it's rude to send the registry info with the shower invite. So, don't worry... people will call and ask and those throwing the the shower will tell them.
well my sister tells me they will add it to paper - and no one knows about etiquette over here
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im sure people would have called to find out regardless, but i could see how thats frustrating, i could so see that happening to me, but it least it makes more work for them and not you lol
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Awww... in some circles (like, big time etiquette circles) it's rude to send the registry info with the shower invite. So, don't worry... people will call and ask and those throwing the the shower will tell them.
well my sister tells me they will add it to paper - and no one knows about etiquette over here
Yeah I would have them go to Michael's and get some cute note card paper or something and print those bad boys up ASAP. I am with you on this one.... if you don't tell people where to shop lord only knows what you would end up with. I love my family but my dad's crazy relatives from Italy... forget it... Venetian lace tablecloths for everyone!
people will ask - don't worry - they will get it all figured out...
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cant you just call the place where you registered and have them mail out cards....that's what macys did for us for our engagement party
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Awww... in some circles (like, big time etiquette circles) it's rude to send the registry info with the shower invite. So, don't worry... people will call and ask and those throwing the the shower will tell them.
well my sister tells me they will add it to paper - and no one knows about etiquette over here
Yeah I would have them go to Michael's and get some cute note card paper or something and print those bad boys up ASAP. I am with you on this one.... if you don't tell people where to shop lord only knows what you would end up with. I love my family but my dad's crazy relatives from Italy... forget it... Venetian lace tablecloths for everyone!
I hope they are smart enough to type them up and not write them i also had to just text her that we are having a wising well - that wasn't on there either
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cant you just call the place where you registered and have them mail out cards....that's what macys did for us for our engagement party
I agree. Or you can usually request them online.
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Well at least your invitations are all set and ready to go
My sister (MOH) still hasn't even asked me for my guest list and has no way of getting it other than asking me for it
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cant you just call the place where you registered and have them mail out cards....that's what macys did for us for our engagement party
they are mailing them out tomorrow
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Well at least your invitations are all set and ready to go
My sister (MOH) still hasn't even asked me for my guest list and has no way of getting it other than asking me for it
OMG you are the same day as me - please i didn't even have invites till this week and was freaking out about them not being sent out yet
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yeah no one will think anything wrong of it...just give them the addresses of the people invited and they'll send it out
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well my sis just texted me and said my friend went to go pick up the cards today at BBB
at least someone's head is working
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Well at least your invitations are all set and ready to go
My sister (MOH) still hasn't even asked me for my guest list and has no way of getting it other than asking me for it
OMG you are the same day as me - please i didn't even have invites till this week and was freaking out about them not being sent out yet
I said to my sister on Monday, do you want my guest list for the shower, her response 'yeah I guess i need that, just send it to me whenever, the invites will go out the beginning of next month'
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well my sis just texted me and said my friend went to go pick up the cards today at BBB
at least someone's head is working
There is always one in the crowd!!
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Well at least your invitations are all set and ready to go
My sister (MOH) still hasn't even asked me for my guest list and has no way of getting it other than asking me for it
OMG you are the same day as me - please i didn't even have invites till this week and was freaking out about them not being sent out yet
I said to my sister on Monday, do you want my guest list for the shower, her response 'yeah I guess i need that, just send it to me whenever, the invites will go out the beginning of next month'
jeez - well maybe i am just psycho and maybe my best friend is lol - i had my list when i got engaged and she asked it from me more than a month ago
don't worry you have time as long as they go out begining of sept - i no my mom just wanted to get them out so she knows how many people are coming for favors and crap like that - I have a big guest list though
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well my sis just texted me and said my friend went to go pick up the cards today at BBB
at least someone's head is working
There is always one in the crowd!!
lol - than i tell my sis to just write wishing well on the BBB cards and she said she was doing that - the lightbulbs came on
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well my sis just texted me and said my friend went to go pick up the cards today at BBB
at least someone's head is working
There is always one in the crowd!!
lol - than i tell my sis to just write wishing well on the BBB cards and she said she was doing that - the lightbulbs came on
I'm glad they're all pulling it together!!!
You'll be hearing me make the same complaints about my shower in a few months... my Mom and sister have been battling it out over locations since the day I got engaged. I'm going to start taking bets that FMIL doesn't even come and will send me something not off of my registry that I have no way of returning.
I liked your idea of planning my own damned shower!!! Give me a budget and a check and the whole thing will be fabulous!!!