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hmmmm...thats a tough one. So many people don't stay together anymore, but if they were married would you include her? Maybe take one with her and one without her. Just parents, siblings and you.
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I would put her in. Imagine how you would feel if someone did that to you? i know I would be highly offended.
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I wasn't in my FH's cousins family shots. I didn't take offense to it. I understood. But the cousin did put her brothers girlfriend in the shots and now they're no longer together and they hate each other. I think I might do half and half.
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but if they were already married, would you have a problem w/ her being in the pics? if it was your brother's wedding, and you were only engaged, how would you feel if your fiance was told he couldn't be in the pics incase one day you were divorced?
sorry, i just don't understand the question. i could see if it was a casual girlfriend, then no, she shouldn't be in the pics, but it's his fiance, they're getting married.
also, when they take family pics, there will be pics w/ just the immediate family, then ones w/ the siblings spouses. we have family pics with DH's brother alone, then w/ DH's brother's wife, that's just how they did it. maybe that'll be a compromise? JMO, but i think it's a little rude if you say she can't be in the pics, when she will soon be family. what if they're married for 50 years, and you regret not having her in the pics? or do you have reason to believe their relationship won't last?
sorry, i just don't understand the question. i could see if it was a casual girlfriend, then no, she shouldn't be in the pics, but it's his fiance, they're getting married.
also, when they take family pics, there will be pics w/ just the immediate family, then ones w/ the siblings spouses. we have family pics with DH's brother alone, then w/ DH's brother's wife, that's just how they did it. maybe that'll be a compromise? JMO, but i think it's a little rude if you say she can't be in the pics, when she will soon be family. what if they're married for 50 years, and you regret not having her in the pics? or do you have reason to believe their relationship won't last?
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Sounds like the best thing to do is to include her in some pictures, but then take pictures without her in the shots. I have nothing against her at all. I just want a picture with his parents and siblings.
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i would have her in the pictures unfortunately now and days everything is unpredictable but the meaning behind not having her in the picture is a bit hurtful- of course this is just my opinion
use your best judgement!![]()
use your best judgement!
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in brothers wedding we had family pictures with just brothers and sisters and parents, no spouses or fiancee's.
try both types of pictures.
try both types of pictures.
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Yea i'd say do one with spouses and one without. I wouldn't be rude and tell her it's b/c 'in case they're not together anymore,' just tell her ur doing both. It's so much easier that way!
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take 2 pics then...think of it...what if they get married and then get divorced- same difference
before i was engaged to fh, they took 2 pics at his cousins wedding...one with me and the other cousins fiance and one without
before i was engaged to fh, they took 2 pics at his cousins wedding...one with me and the other cousins fiance and one without
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thanks Girls. I'm erasing the original just in case.
