Denise, I am so sorry

I still feel like a big piece of turd.

Thank you so much for being so very understanding. I love you very much and you know if hurts me to not be a part of something so special.

You can elaborate on here since I am being bombarded as usual...

AWWWWWW HELEN STOP

honestly its understandable...I would love more than anything for you to be at my bachelorette party but if your job isn't letting you take off that weekend theres nothing you can do, you didn't do anything

i just feel horrible that you already paid for a plane ticket and lose out on that money

I LOVE YOU!!!!! we'll go out when i get back

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Posted by yelley77

ets: i get it now, lol

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helen calls me yesterday telling me she is coming over my house bc she has bad news she has to tell me face to face...now i freak out thinking OMG something horrible happened whats going on. So fh and i pick her up from the train to drive her to my house to hang out. We both we're worried and then she tells me how her boss told her she cant take off sunday to go to my bachelorette. I love for her to be there but its work and these things happen unfortunately, she thought i'd be mad but you have to be understanding of these situations.

she gave me the gifts she was going to give me at my bachelorette party...she bought me the VS sexy little bride hoodie, the sexy little bride sash that is white with baby blue writing and the 1st letter of the 3 words has rhinestones, plus a veil for my bachelorette party and the philosophy bridal party set. That was so incredibly sweet

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Posted by yelley77

ets: i get it now, lol

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helen calls me yesterday telling me she is coming over my house bc she has bad news she has to tell me face to face...now i freak out thinking OMG something horrible happened whats going on. So fh and i pick her up from the train to drive her to my house to hang out. We both we're worried and then she tells me how her boss told her she cant take off sunday to go to my bachelorette. I love for her to be there but its work and these things happen unfortunately, she thought i'd be mad but you have to be understanding of these situations.

Plus she came with gifts...she bought me the VS sexy little bride hoodie, the sexy little bride sash that is white with baby blue writing and the 1st letter of the 3 words has rhinestones, plus a veil for my bachelorette party and the philosophy bridal party set. That was so incredibly sweet

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awe!! helen, you are such a great friend!!!

and yes, things come up... we are big girls now and just can't come and go as we please!

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Posted by Espo22
Plus she came with gifts...she bought me the VS sexy little bride hoodie, the sexy little bride sash that is white with baby blue writing and the 1st letter of the 3 words has rhinestones, plus a veil for my bachelorette party and the philosophy bridal party set. That was so incredibly sweet

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Well - since she came with gifts - I guess it's alright.

Have fun Denise!

And Helen - call out sick, woman!!!!!!!

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Posted by yelley77

ets: i get it now, lol

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Plus she came with gifts...she bought me the VS sexy little bride hoodie, the sexy little bride sash that is white with baby blue writing and the 1st letter of the 3 words has rhinestones, plus a veil for my bachelorette party and the philosophy bridal party set. That was so incredibly sweet

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well as long as she came bearing gifts.....

KIDDING

and uh...I'll take her plane ticket!!!!!!

Aw, maybe you can use the plane ticket for the 2 of you to take a little 3 day vaca next winter... you know, to take a break from your DH's...

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Posted by Espo22
Plus she came with gifts...she bought me the VS sexy little bride hoodie, the sexy little bride sash that is white with baby blue writing and the 1st letter of the 3 words has rhinestones, plus a veil for my bachelorette party and the philosophy bridal party set. That was so incredibly sweet

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Well - since she came with gifts - I guess it's alright.

Have fun Denise!

And Helen - call out sick, woman!!!!!!!

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no lol i didnt mean its ok bc of the gifts...even before the gifts i told her not to worry and that its ok i would not get mad. I was trying to say the girl felt so horrible and she was so sad, and was worried about the whole thing and she brought the gifts she was going to give me on my BP party, i was shouting her out and to show how appreciative i am of it.

I love helen, i know the girl since JHS. I would love more than anything to have her at my bachelorette party and even was praying last night that somehow her boss will change her mind. But its regarding work, i know how helen already feels and i dont want to make her feel worse, so i show her that im understanding.

The whole Plus part with the gifts was a continuation of her being so worried, and driving herself crazy

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Posted by Mimacat

Aw, maybe you can use the plane ticket for the 2 of you to take a little 3 day vaca next winter... you know, to take a break from your DH's...

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good point, we might need that

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Posted by Espo22
Plus she came with gifts...she bought me the VS sexy little bride hoodie, the sexy little bride sash that is white with baby blue writing and the 1st letter of the 3 words has rhinestones, plus a veil for my bachelorette party and the philosophy bridal party set. That was so incredibly sweet

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Well - since she came with gifts - I guess it's alright.

Have fun Denise!

And Helen - call out sick, woman!!!!!!!

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no lol i didnt mean its ok bc of the gifts...even before the gifts i told her not to worry and that its ok i would not get mad. I was trying to say the girl felt so horrible and she was so sad, and was worried about the whole thing and she brought the gifts she was going to give me on my BP party, i was shouting her out and to show how appreciative i am of it.

I love helen, i know the girl since JHS. I would love more than anything to have her at my bachelorette party and even was praying last night that somehow her boss will change her mind. But its regarding work, i know how helen already feels and i dont want to make her feel worse, so i show her that im understanding.

The whole Plus part with the gifts was a continuation of her being so worried, and driving herself crazy

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Sounds like you guys are great friends! Life just happens sometimes and we have to be understanding.

Which reminds of American Idol last night. Brooke's sister got married last weekend and she wasn't able to attend.

that su cks u cant go! i wish bosses could make an exception especially since u already have the plane ticket.

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Posted by yelley77

ets: i get it now, lol

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helen calls me yesterday telling me she is coming over my house bc she has bad news she has to tell me face to face...now i freak out thinking OMG something horrible happened whats going on. So fh and i pick her up from the train to drive her to my house to hang out. We both we're worried and then she tells me how her boss told her she cant take off sunday to go to my bachelorette. I love for her to be there but its work and these things happen unfortunately, she thought i'd be mad but you have to be understanding of these situations.

she gave me the gifts she was going to give me at my bachelorette party...she bought me the VS sexy little bride hoodie, the sexy little bride sash that is white with baby blue writing and the 1st letter of the 3 words has rhinestones, plus a veil for my bachelorette party and the philosophy bridal party set. That was so incredibly sweet

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i requested fri and mon off...my boss said nope, she wanted me to leave fri and fly back on sun and be in first thing monday...you girls know how strapped we get shelling out for the big day, i couldn't fathom all the expense and travel for 1 day, so i had to put my pride in my pocket and tell my boss, nevermind...i had to put my heart in my pocket and tell Denise that i can't go...this has been such a bad month for me so far......i can't wait for next month, when i actually have nice things to look forward to like your rehearsal and dinner, the WEDDING, my birthday...

ps: i'm so glad you like the gifts, i was supposed to bring them with me but hey now you can wear the hoodie on your flight & everyone in the airport will say there goes some LV trouble, lol!

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Posted by jennandrolo

that su cks u cant go! i wish bosses could make an exception especially since u already have the plane ticket.

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tell me about it, i'm eating one tix and getting a voucher for the other...see, it's really wrong of my boss, cuz i go above and beyond, she's just been in such mood lately...i feel like i'm holding a limp stick while inside the bear cage!

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Posted by Espo22
Plus she came with gifts...she bought me the VS sexy little bride hoodie, the sexy little bride sash that is white with baby blue writing and the 1st letter of the 3 words has rhinestones, plus a veil for my bachelorette party and the philosophy bridal party set. That was so incredibly sweet

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Well - since she came with gifts - I guess it's alright.

Have fun Denise!

And Helen - call out sick, woman!!!!!!!

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no lol i didnt mean its ok bc of the gifts...even before the gifts i told her not to worry and that its ok i would not get mad. I was trying to say the girl felt so horrible and she was so sad, and was worried about the whole thing and she brought the gifts she was going to give me on my BP party, i was shouting her out and to show how appreciative i am of it.

I love helen, i know the girl since JHS. I would love more than anything to have her at my bachelorette party and even was praying last night that somehow her boss will change her mind. But its regarding work, i know how helen already feels and i dont want to make her feel worse, so i show her that im understanding.

The whole Plus part with the gifts was a continuation of her being so worried, and driving herself crazy

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Sounds like you guys are great friends! Life just happens sometimes and we have to be understanding.

Which reminds of American Idol last night. Brooke's sister got married last weekend and she wasn't able to attend.

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really omg wow they wouldnt let her off

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Posted by yelley77

ets: i get it now, lol

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helen calls me yesterday telling me she is coming over my house bc she has bad news she has to tell me face to face...now i freak out thinking OMG something horrible happened whats going on. So fh and i pick her up from the train to drive her to my house to hang out. We both we're worried and then she tells me how her boss told her she cant take off sunday to go to my bachelorette. I love for her to be there but its work and these things happen unfortunately, she thought i'd be mad but you have to be understanding of these situations.

she gave me the gifts she was going to give me at my bachelorette party...she bought me the VS sexy little bride hoodie, the sexy little bride sash that is white with baby blue writing and the 1st letter of the 3 words has rhinestones, plus a veil for my bachelorette party and the philosophy bridal party set. That was so incredibly sweet

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i requested fri and mon off...my boss said nope, she wanted me to leave fri and fly back on sun and be in first thing monday...you girls know how strapped we get shelling out for the big day, i couldn't fathom all the expense and travel for 1 day, so i had to put my pride in my pocket and tell my boss, nevermind...i had to put my heart in my pocket and tell Denise that i can't go...this has been such a bad month for me so far......i can't wait for next month, when i actually have nice things to look forward to like your rehearsal and dinner, the WEDDING, my birthday...

ps: i'm so glad you like the gifts, i was supposed to bring them with me but hey now you can wear the hoodie on your flight & everyone in the airport will say there goes some LV trouble, lol!

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would that effect the cost of your flight? I feel horrible you losing out on the money of a flight. For joes bachelor party his brother went with him on thursday and came home saturday...at least this way you dont lose money on the flight and its less money you spend while there hahaha, plus 2 other guys came friday and left sunday. Unless you can get money back on the flight or hold onto it for a while

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Posted by msflesch

awww - its really nice to see that you are both such good friends to one another - you are both lucky!!

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awww thank you