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J loves R Posted:

depressed

after this weekend i am feeling very down and confused..... has anyone else had feelings of panic or questioning? i am under so much stress with non wedding things that i absolutely cannot process anything anymore! is it normal to freak out???? fh seems completely unaware that things are off and therefore isnt helping...... i know im the confused one but it takes two.......HELP ?!?!?!!?!?

coldasice217 Posted:

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First off, I'm sorry you're feeling this way. It happens to me all the time, more often than I would really like to admit. It's never questioning my love for FH...but more that I'm still fairly young, and my job is high stress and deadline oriented and a lot of responsibilities with NO reward for it, so I feel as if I'm getting over my head to start an adult life where I'll have to provide for myself.

So it's completely normal...and really, if FH doesn't know about it, you should sit down with him and talk to him and get it off your chest. He can't help you unless he knows what's wrong.
lg3016 Posted:

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Posted by J loves R

after this weekend i am feeling very down and confused..... has anyone else had feelings of panic or questioning? i am under so much stress with non wedding things that i absolutely cannot process anything anymore! is it normal to freak out???? fh seems completely unaware that things are off and therefore isnt helping...... i know im the confused one but it takes two.......HELP ?!?!?!!?!?


I am feeling the EXACT same way. I break down everyday in tears.
J loves R Posted:

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thanks that actually did make me feel better its amazing how sometimes u just need to hear someone say it ... anyway i do talk to fh and he just seems to in one ear and out the other i feel like im stressed about myself, the wedding, wrk, life and him and he kind of just sees himself.... hes going thru a rough time he had a serious loss recently and is still coping.... i think were a little disconnected ... maybe i imagine it...who knows but thanx!!!!

J loves R Posted:

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the tears seem to be never ending right now im glad its not just me. hopefully the warmer weather and longer daylight will help everyone feel better

dazey Posted:

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yes i have felt that way, have gone through so much stress and anxiety, fear, etc. as i get closer to the date, i'm getting less nervous and more excited, although i have so much to do, i'm just getting it done one day at a time. feel better and remember all the important things, don't let everything get to you. good luck

9509Bride Posted:

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You are not alone! ... I too have had the same feelings. I think it comes with the planning.


Just know that you are not alone and if you ever need to vent and FH or anyone wont listen WE WILL!!!!! Vent to us!

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