Depressed and just feel like venting (long sorry)

FutureMrsMacci Posted: Mar 20, 2008 07:06 PM

Depressed and just feel like venting (long sorry)

Thank you ladies for all of your kind words. I had to take it down for now, but I am glad that you guys were here to listen

KristiAnn923 Posted: Mar 20, 2008 07:11 PM

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I don't know what to say, and I know there is nothing I can say to make it better for you but I am truly sorry.

I'm going to send you FM. Trust me you are not alone!!! I am so sorry.

kimiequa Posted: Mar 20, 2008 07:18 PM

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wow... i'm so sorry. i can't even imagine what you are going through. just wanted to give you hugs and wish you luck.

the silver lining in this is that you have a wonderful FH and you will start your own family, memories, and traditions.

MaggieLuvsJoe Posted: Mar 20, 2008 07:18 PM

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I'm so sorry you have to deal with such a bad situation....

sending lots of hugs your way

MrsLarrea2B Posted: Mar 20, 2008 07:24 PM

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I am so sorry, and I am also in a similar situation. I am planning this entire wedding myself. FH and I are paying for our E-dinner party this Sat. My parents are like whetever ( I think they are still praying that we split up) , his family doesnt really care. I also feel alone, in fact I cried myself to sleep last night b.c I honestly feel like nobody cares about me.

To make myself feel better I surround myself w. people who are happy for me and excited about my wedding. I take comfort in my friends who are helping me plan my wedding and give me good advice...or at least listen to me *****/ FH isn't very supportive b.c he is used to his family being indifferent and not caring about him, so he mostly feels like 'I told you so' . But I am not used to it. I am really close to my family, and I never in a million years pictured my wedding planning to go down this way.

I know how u feel, and I am really sad about this whole thing. What should be an exciting experience has turned into a sad reality. Honestly, last night I decided that depending on how saturday goes (E-party) I will decide if I still want to go through with the wedding. If it turns into a disaster b.c ppl start arguing or ppl just seem like they dont care, then I think I will cancel the whole thing.

i think that this whole wedding planning and transition to marriage life is very stressful and really turns us into an emotional mess.

Aristotelina Posted: Mar 20, 2008 07:26 PM

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I'm so so soooo sorry that you have to deal with such negativity during such a special time in your life.

AT least you are making a new life and a new family now with FH....hopefully you get the happiness you deserve!

MRSin2009 Posted: Mar 20, 2008 07:30 PM

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I am so sorry you have to go through this. I am sure anything I say wont make you feel better but if you ever need to chat feel free to FM me!

Tori9299 Posted: Mar 20, 2008 07:30 PM

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Sorry, I am not sure what to say but just stay strong, and that one day you and your FH will have your own family.

LiLMich Posted: Mar 20, 2008 07:31 PM

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I am so sorry that you are dealing with all of that. Try to stay positive and look at all the good things that you have going on in your life. Sometimes we just can't control other people's actions no matter how hard we want to or how hard we try. Good luck with everything!!!

Im a Pepper Posted: Mar 20, 2008 07:40 PM

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i'm so sorry to hear this! i know it's tough not to have a close relationship with family. at least you have FH who cares for you very much and also his family who i bet loves you! i know it's no replacement for your own family, but there are people in the world who actually do care and do want to be a part of your life. Best of luck wtih everything... I really hope your family comes around

VickiR510 Posted: Mar 20, 2008 07:46 PM

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Wow, so sorry for you. I couldnt imagine dealing with that. best of luck & keep your head up because you now are ona path to building yoru own future, memories & family.

MrsInglima Posted: Mar 20, 2008 07:48 PM

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I am FM-ing you too.

FutureMrsMacci Posted: Mar 20, 2008 07:48 PM

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Thanks girls... I just had to let it out. It hurts now but I know eventually I will come to terms with it. There is too much in life that will always be a reminder of family to me so I know I wont get over it but I am sure I will learn to deal with it over time.

Im a Pepper Posted: Mar 20, 2008 07:54 PM

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Posted by FutureMrsMacci

Thanks girls... I just had to let it out. It hurts now but I know eventually I will come to terms with it. There is too much in life that will always be a reminder of family to me so I know I wont get over it but I am sure I will learn to deal with it over time.

i know it hurts... you know, it really probably isn't a consolation at all, but one day you and FH will have a family of your own and i'm sure it will be a very close one, considering what you're going through now! chin up!

curlyq4458 Posted: Mar 20, 2008 08:30 PM

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I can only imagine what your going through. You seem like a tough cookie...keep up the good work. I would still invite them to your wedding, but you may regret it in the end. it's their lose, not your if they don't come.
just think this is a new beginning with your FH. start your own family and learn from this that your future family won't be disengaged form your life