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jenn122397 Posted:

did any of you girls feel...

extremely tired about a month before the wedding?
I am doing alot: school, work, planning, getting ready to move
im not like freaking out stressed, i guess I just have alot on my plate right now
I feel like I should be sleeping like 20 hours a day to make up for how tired i feel!
Any one else feel like this?
diva7531 Posted:

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OMG yes, MIL and sis kept asking if I was preggo! It is just so much for your mind, plus I think my mind kept reeling even when I was asleep, so I think even if I slept 8 hours it was more like 3! Make sure you get enough sleep and make friends with caffine!
Mooshyboo Posted:

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ohhh yes ~ just make sure the days before your wedding you get lots of sleep and then the adrenaline kicks in then you will crash the day after your wedding....
cookiemonster Posted:

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I feel like that now - I'm working so hard at work because I'm only here for another week, so I'm trying to get everything done. Then I come home and there's tons to do and my mind is spinning at night, and I'm a night person anyway, so couple those 2 things and I can never fall asleep til at least midnight, then I'm up at 6 for work! So I'm always tired and am inhaling coffee. At least it's good for the metabolism....

magbride Posted:

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I do. Well right now I have my period and a cold, so I guess with good reason, but I noticed my PMS was magnified by 100 this month. I usually get a little tired before my period, but I was completely wiped out!

ksl268 Posted:

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Oh, my god Jenn you read my mind
I'm exhausted but it's partially due to the extreme lack of sleep for being so hyped up. I've been on a roll for like 2 weeks. It's catching up to me
PreshusSmurf Posted:

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Yes! And i have this AWFUL pain in my arm/neck/shoulder, and it just won't go away And I can't do any of the things that need to be done
stickymartini Posted:

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YES! Think of all the things you do in your normal day and then add the mental stress of planning a wedding on top of it!
Not to freak you out, but the 2 week span before your wedding will no doubt have you wigging out a little too!! Just know thats it's NORMAL and it will pass!!!
Try to get as much rest as you can & deligate other people to do some things for you to make your life a little easier.
FDWedding07 Posted:

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I thought I was sick. I went to the dr a few times I was sooo drained. Then 3 days before my wedding I was kicked in the head by a patient at work and ended up with a concussion. Then the day before my wedding leading in to the whole next week it was like everything went away. I felt perfect. Nothing could bother me. I was on cloud 9. Dont worry its all normal. You will feel amazing on your wedding day.
sweetdreamz1181 Posted:

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i am sooo tired and sooo drained... i can fall asleep at night but i keep having soo many dreams that my mind is constantly going and when i wake up i am tired from dreaming soo much

Maybride519 Posted:

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Posted by jenn122397

extremely tired about a month before the wedding?
I am doing alot: school, work, planning, getting ready to move
im not like freaking out stressed, i guess I just have alot on my plate right now
I feel like I should be sleeping like 20 hours a day to make up for how tired i feel!
Any one else feel like this?




Yes! Its hectic because you have to start finalizing everything now. I moved a month before my wedding . It was nuts! We would order take out every night or not eat at all because there was just too much to do with the new place. It wasn't until the week of the wedding when we dropped everything off at the hall that we felt like 'Whew!, now we can relax'
You have exactly one month from today! Hang in there!!
tink79 Posted:

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I've been feeling the exact same way!! and now here I am 3 days till the wedding and trying to finish everything up. I want to make sure I get everything that's left done tomorrow so I can just relax on Thursday! GL!!!

ant n tilde Posted:

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i am not there yet so i cant tell you if its normal but for you!
FullersBride Posted:

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Totally, I could barely think at times!!! I was always forgetting things even mid sentence. I think I got really burnt out it actually took me a few months to get back to 'me' and sleeping right and being able to remember who I was. Just keep trying to take care of yourself. remember to eat, sleep, drink lots of water and take personal time when you need it!!!

ligirlz Posted:

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Posted by cookiemonster

I feel like that now - I'm working so hard at work because I'm only here for another week, so I'm trying to get everything done. Then I come home and there's tons to do and my mind is spinning at night, and I'm a night person anyway, so couple those 2 things and I can never fall asleep til at least midnight, then I'm up at 6 for work! So I'm always tired and am inhaling coffee. At least it's good for the metabolism....




I felt the same way. I was concentrating so much on getting my work done before I left for 2 weeks and also doing wedding stuff until late I was so exhausted. I felt like I lost my weekends too. I thank god it went back to normal after the wedding. I now sleep better with no worry.
PegaLega Posted:

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I did, i was exhausted-try and nap as much as you can-otherwise you will kill yourself and wind up with a cold~i lost my voice the day before the wedding
weddingbunny Posted:

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I was EXHAUSTED constantly. I felt like I wasn't sleeping at all, even when I slept 8 hours a night (although, that wasn't necessarily a regular occurrence)

It's 2 weeks later now, and I'm still exhausted... I feel like I haven't caught up yet.
Mich0621 Posted:

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Posted by jenn122397

extremely tired about a month before the wedding?
I am doing alot: school, work, planning, getting ready to move
im not like freaking out stressed, i guess I just have alot on my plate right now
I feel like I should be sleeping like 20 hours a day to make up for how tired i feel!
Any one else feel like this?



Yes, and I think from what I heard, it is totally normal, because marriage is one of the most life altering and stressful things in one's life. I am exhausted too, and in the same position as you. You are not alone
jenn122397 Posted:

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thanks girls! im dreading the last two weeks before the wedding - im only taking off wednesday and teh day before is thanksgiving so ill have that day off too - i feel like i need to take off starting now!

i guess strabucks and I are becoming very close friends!
cncoso Posted:

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This is exactly how I feel right now at 1 month before! Last night my FMIL told me I looked like hell!!!
I dont even know why. I sleep at night! It's just I am exhausted! It is so damn hard waking up these days!

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