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did anyone get any cancellations the week before your wedding?

Original post by Brideoct05

I have gotton 3 this week.

Happybride2005 Posted:

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the day of one person didnt come...her brother was suppose to take her and his car died

Moosey911 Posted:

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Yup--I've gotten 8 this week.....8!!! How can THAT many people need to have emergency surgery?????? Such a coincidence.....I'm not sure who to believe!!!

mable Posted:

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I have 3 so far but they are due back 2morrow. the fun!!

gina&ken Posted:

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i had 4 the week of the wedding, but it was before I had to give the final count to the hall, and 2 after that.

Ang&Rich Posted:

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I got cancellations up to the last week of the wedding. I actualy lost an entire table by the time all was said and done.

csorisi Posted:

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Most peopel get cancellations the week of I think I am going to tell my hall 4 less people then the final number & just pay for those 4 people the day of...I don't want to have to pay for too many people that end up not showing up. I know someone that ended up paying for a whole table that didn't show up & my friend in june had at least 5 not show.

Octoberlove Posted:

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I got three also this week. Its okay though the hall said they will refund my money to me up until the 7th

beautyq115 Posted:

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Posted by csorisi

Most peopel get cancellations the week of I think I am going to tell my hall 4 less people then the final number & just pay for those 4 people the day of...I don't want to have to pay for too many people that end up not showing up. I know someone that ended up paying for a whole table that didn't show up & my friend in june had at least 5 not show.



That is a really great idea!
SomethingBlu Posted:

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We got one...and then we had 11 no shows.
lindz Posted:

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We had 4 cancellations after we paid the final bill 10 days prior. Lombardi's allowed us to come back after the honeymoon for 4 dinners which was nice, I suppose.

People who have not planned a wedding in a long time or at all don't realize the problems this causes. We did not have any no shows, thank God!
AnniesSS Posted:

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I got one the week before and had due people not show up due to illness
SomethingBlu Posted:

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Posted by csorisi

Most peopel get cancellations the week of I think I am going to tell my hall 4 less people then the final number & just pay for those 4 people the day of...I don't want to have to pay for too many people that end up not showing up. I know someone that ended up paying for a whole table that didn't show up & my friend in june had at least 5 not show.



This is true!
We had 112 RSVP's...but I knew we would get no shows, so we only paid for 100ppl (our minimum). Thank God because we got A LOT of no shows.
NPbride Posted:

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We got 1 cancellation about 1 week and a half before (friend having a rough pregnancy and on bed rest). But it was before the final number for the hall but I still told my hall about 6 or 8 people less and will just pay for them the day of. The banquet manager actually told us we should do this!

Mrs_B Posted:

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We didnt get any the week before BUT we had 4 people not show up. One couple had a health related problem which is understandable. THe other one DH has not even heard from since!
IrishBride-05 Posted:

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I'm just wondering how this works? If you want to pay for a few less in case of no-shows, but you provide placecards for the exact number people who RSVP'd, does the RH question it?

octoberwedding Posted:

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Posted by IrishBride-05

I'm just wondering how this works? If you want to pay for a few less in case of no-shows, but you provide placecards for the exact number people who RSVP'd, does the RH question it?



I know that there are 6 people who have told me that they are unsure if they are attending...i am going to provide the placecard but tell the hall that they are undecided and I will pay for them the day of if they come.
IrishBride-05 Posted:

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Posted by octoberwedding


Posted by IrishBride-05

I'm just wondering how this works? If you want to pay for a few less in case of no-shows, but you provide placecards for the exact number people who RSVP'd, does the RH question it?



I know that there are 6 people who have told me that they are unsure if they are attending...i am going to provide the placecard but tell the hall that they are undecided and I will pay for them the day of if they come.



That's a good idea. I have 2 undecided as well.

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