Did I commit a wedding sin? long sorry

I was at a wedding a few weeks ago for a friend and I had to order the meal in advance. I chose the beef dish. When they delivered the food, my 'beef' dish was actually some weird pressed steak with some weird stuff inside that didn't look right.... I conferred with others at my table, most of whom ordered fish or chicken, and everyone agreed that I should absolutely not eat it.

So I called the waiter back over and told him something was wrong with my food. He started to get all testy, telling me this is how the food was supposed to look, and I just asked if I could please have a different dish. He then told me I had to wait until everyone else was served and if they had anything leftover they would give me that! FH cut off some of his chicken and potatoes and put it ona bread plate because I was starving, and finally about 20 minutes later the waiver brought me over some fish.

I have no idea if the bride and groom were charged for my extra meal, and I felt bad because I felt like this was something you should never do at a wedding -- but the meat looked horrible and I wasn't going to eat something that gross looking!

Opinions? What would you do if someone at your wedding returned the food?

EDITED: Oh, and the RH was across the country so it doesn't matter for us!