did you ever...

Toucan311 Posted: Jul 01, 2007 01:31 PM

did you ever...

Look at a photo that someone posted of their dress/makeup/hair/etc and just want to say 'ew no, thats ugly' but you don't bc you KNOW thats rude??

Shell84 Posted: Jul 01, 2007 01:33 PM

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all the time.
I just don't say anything at all because i hate it when people are being lied to.

angl2001 Posted: Jul 01, 2007 01:34 PM

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i sually dont post to it
unless it asks for 'honest opinion' in the post lol

Toucan311 Posted: Jul 01, 2007 01:34 PM

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Posted by Shell84

all the time.
I just don't say anything at all because i hate it when people are being lied to.

Agreed!

Espo22 Posted: Jul 01, 2007 01:37 PM

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Posted by angl2001

i sually dont post to it
unless it asks for 'honest opinion' in the post lol

ditto

unless someone will ask for honest opinions and even then you still have to be careful...Ill be honest with make up, if i think the colors don't go, over done, underdone or whatever.

But other things ill just leave alone

MyLobster Posted: Jul 01, 2007 02:44 PM

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LOL a way to figure out if people don't like what you're posting is if there are 85 views and 3 responses. Happened to me! I got the point!

nifheim Posted: Jul 01, 2007 02:52 PM

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yep

ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted: Jul 01, 2007 03:08 PM

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Posted by Shell84

all the time.
I just don't say anything at all because i hate it when people are being lied to.

lol same here

jgl Posted: Jul 01, 2007 03:13 PM

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most of the time.. and i know that everyones opinions of things are different but its sad that most of the time we cant be honest because people are too sensitive. When i post something i really want to know what most people think of it, i dont want them to just be nice about it or not post.

I think that is what is good about polls you can be more honest and you dont have to post a comment about it

bridezilla08 Posted: Jul 01, 2007 03:46 PM

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Yup! I just rather not post about it.

yelley77 Posted: Jul 01, 2007 04:03 PM

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HAHAHA!! I would hope that you gals would always be honest with me. I'd like to hear the truth, but i agree with some of you, not everyone can handle the truth.

Sunflower08 Posted: Jul 01, 2007 04:47 PM

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I usually keep negative comments to myself. I will only comment if I like what the girl looks like, make-up, dress, hair etc.

Cntthinkofone Posted: Jul 01, 2007 05:12 PM

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hahaha No I just wouldn't comment. Everyone has different taste and something hideous to one might be lovely to another. But for future reference lol If something I show is horrific like soo bad ill be talked about for weeks PLEASE tell me

ChristineAaron08 Posted: Jul 01, 2007 05:18 PM

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Sometimes. I either won't comment at all or I will try to say it in a nice way. If it is something that is just not my taste, then I don't comment b/c if it's their taste- then that's their opinion.

Snowflake08 Posted: Jul 01, 2007 05:55 PM

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Posted by Shell84

all the time.
I just don't say anything at all because i hate it when people are being lied to.

same here, those are usually the ones i dont respond to - i cant lie

Toucan311 Posted: Jul 01, 2007 06:51 PM

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Posted by Snowflake08

Posted by Shell84

all the time.
I just don't say anything at all because i hate it when people are being lied to.

same here, those are usually the ones i dont respond to - i cant lie

Yeah, I've been meaning to tell you I don't really like your dress much. Oh wait, I have the same one

bemyyoko Posted: Jul 02, 2007 02:10 AM

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i'm always honest. i wont say like 'ew omg you look like poop' but i'm not gonna say 'OMG I LOVE IT YOU LOOK GREAT!!!' when they obviously don't.

however, if it's something that probobly looks good, but isnt my style so i don't like it, i'll say something along the lines of 'if you love it, do it!'

but if makeup, hair, or dresses or something just look bad, i want to tell people bc i don't want their guests to think that about them, you know? i want all you ladies to look amazing on your wedding day!!

I Love my bear Posted: Jul 02, 2007 07:37 AM

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I'm pretty honest but I'll just say it's not my taste/style. You have to be open to other people's styles but I agree if its hair/makeup I definateley will tell them in a nice way that it's not too flattering on you or something like that. Honestly I would like people to tell me if it was the other way around!

AmandaLynn04 Posted: Jul 02, 2007 07:41 AM

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All the time!!! I will usually just not reply, or say it tactfully. I want to know the truth, as I am sure all of you do, but, there is a way to say things!

Sometimes I see girls reply on here and just not use any tact, and I want to say SHUT THE F*** UP!!!!! It's definitely all about how you say things!

ant n tilde Posted: Jul 02, 2007 07:56 AM

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it depends on how the girl presents it

if she is like 'I am not sure about my m/u' then I will give her an honest opinion ( usually through FM)
but if it is like 'come check out the final fitting of my dress' i will keep my mouth shut LOL