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See a couple get married, and you just KNOW based on your dealings with them that its a bad idea? I've seen couples where they nag obsessively and bicker, have insane jealously issues, etc. Its scares me sometimes how people jump into marriages when their pre-marriage relationship doesnt seem that great!!

UCK its a huge peeve of mine when women reprimand their significant other or tell them what to do, esp in a public setting.

yep

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Posted by Mimacat

See a couple get married, and you just KNOW based on your dealings with them that its a bad idea? I've seen couples where they nag obsessively and bicker, have insane jealously issues, etc. Its scares me sometimes how people jump into marriages when their pre-marriage relationship doesnt seem that great!!

UCK its a huge peeve of mine when women reprimand their significant other or tell them what to do, esp in a public setting.

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YES to all of the above!

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Posted by Mimacat

See a couple get married, and you just KNOW based on your dealings with them that its a bad idea? I've seen couples where they nag obsessively and bicker, have insane jealously issues, etc. Its scares me sometimes how people jump into marriages when their pre-marriage relationship doesnt seem that great!!

UCK its a huge peeve of mine when women reprimand their significant other or tell them what to do, esp in a public setting.

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it's not just women!

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Posted by MikeandJess

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Posted by Mimacat

See a couple get married, and you just KNOW based on your dealings with them that its a bad idea? I've seen couples where they nag obsessively and bicker, have insane jealously issues, etc. Its scares me sometimes how people jump into marriages when their pre-marriage relationship doesnt seem that great!!

UCK its a huge peeve of mine when women reprimand their significant other or tell them what to do, esp in a public setting.

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it's not just women!

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I'm sure its not, but I've only witnessed some girls I know treating their significant other like a child, telling them what to eat, telling them to stop doing things, etc. UGH.

On truebrideconfessions a bride shared that she returned from her hair and make-up trial and her FH said she looked like a crossdresser.

Holy crap! Does she think marriage will turn that a-hole into prince charming?

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Posted by Mimacat

See a couple get married, and you just KNOW based on your dealings with them that its a bad idea? I've seen couples where they nag obsessively and bicker, have insane jealously issues, etc. Its scares me sometimes how people jump into marriages when their pre-marriage relationship doesnt seem that great!!

UCK its a huge peeve of mine when women reprimand their significant other or tell them what to do, esp in a public setting.

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ugh yeah i know exactly what you mean. I won't even say some of the situations i am thinking about.

I HATE that so much...i'll admit i used to be like that a long time ago and honestly all it did was just make me look like an a** and now i look back and its so embarassing...All you prove to everyone is that 'HEY look at us we have alot of issues' not even the fact that you're sticking up for yourself or anything like that. Because of having been like that in the past i do all i can now not to do that. If something does bother me, ill bite my lip and wait until we're alone to say something but then its funny bc most of the time by that time you end up forgetting or not even caring about it, you end up having a great night and realizing how insignificant it was. But i've been around some women who make it uncomfortable for everybody that is out and even i sit there like OMG how does he take it

wait was that too opinionated lol

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Mimacat

See a couple get married, and you just KNOW based on your dealings with them that its a bad idea? I've seen couples where they nag obsessively and bicker, have insane jealously issues, etc. Its scares me sometimes how people jump into marriages when their pre-marriage relationship doesnt seem that great!!

UCK its a huge peeve of mine when women reprimand their significant other or tell them what to do, esp in a public setting.

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ugh yeah i know exactly what you mean. I won't even say some of the situations i am thinking about.

I HATE that so much...i'll admit i used to be like that a long time ago and honestly all it did was just make me look like an a** and now i look back and its so embarassing...All you prove to everyone is that 'HEY look at us we have alot of issues' not even the fact that you're sticking up for yourself or anything like that. Because of having been like that in the past i do all i can now not to do that. If something does bother me, ill bite my lip and wait until we're alone to say something but then its funny bc most of the time by that time you end up forgetting or not even caring about it, you end up having a great night and realizing how insignificant it was. But i've been around some women who make it uncomfortable for everybody that is out and even i sit there like OMG how does he take it

wait was that too opinionated lol

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I know. Its hard to bite your tougue since it really isnt your business, but you just want to scream at the person! Its embarassing for the ppl who have to sit there and witness it!

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Posted by Mimacat

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Mimacat

See a couple get married, and you just KNOW based on your dealings with them that its a bad idea? I've seen couples where they nag obsessively and bicker, have insane jealously issues, etc. Its scares me sometimes how people jump into marriages when their pre-marriage relationship doesnt seem that great!!

UCK its a huge peeve of mine when women reprimand their significant other or tell them what to do, esp in a public setting.

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ugh yeah i know exactly what you mean. I won't even say some of the situations i am thinking about.

I HATE that so much...i'll admit i used to be like that a long time ago and honestly all it did was just make me look like an a** and now i look back and its so embarassing...All you prove to everyone is that 'HEY look at us we have alot of issues' not even the fact that you're sticking up for yourself or anything like that. Because of having been like that in the past i do all i can now not to do that. If something does bother me, ill bite my lip and wait until we're alone to say something but then its funny bc most of the time by that time you end up forgetting or not even caring about it, you end up having a great night and realizing how insignificant it was. But i've been around some women who make it uncomfortable for everybody that is out and even i sit there like OMG how does he take it

wait was that too opinionated lol

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I know. Its hard to bite your tougue since it really isnt your business, but you just want to scream at the person! Its embarassing for the ppl who have to sit there and witness it!

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i think alot of times the girl feels she has to do that, like sometimes a bf will make a joke or something like that and honestly it won't even be that bad and then they over react and its like ok no need to go crazy now we all thought it was a joke and you doing this makes it seem bad. This particular couple did eventually break up but everytime we did go hang out with them even before fh and i would get there we would prepare ourselves for what was to come

I know. You feel bad for the one person and want to tell them but because of circumstances you can't say anything. UGH!

I almost feel like these two jackasses that I just came upon deserve eachother. One of them is going to cheat cheat cheat, and the other is going to be a dramatic, obsessive nut job. Also, her wedding gown was ugly

Yes she did just the other day!

I know!! we were just at a wedding and during the first dance FH says 'they don't have a shot in hell'...