Did you ever feel like . . .

Did you ever feel like . . .

your going to have an emotional breakdown? Today is that day for me. Too much to get into but I feel as if EVERYONE wants me to do what THEY think is the right thing an insist on telling me how inconsiderate I am and how I SHOULD be doing things (I am a very thoughtful person and always consider peoples feelings). I physically am feeling stressed as well and I am sitting at my desk at work and almost broke into tears multiple times. I am also an emotional eater so I've been eating everything in sight for the past week and I'm supposed to be watching what I'm eating. Thanks for listening.

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I'm so sorry you're feeling down. After work today, screw every other person/responsibility in your life and do something you LOVE. Get a pedicure, massage, go shopping--something that relaxes you! Hope you feel better!

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Thats the same way i was feeling. But i told my self since im paying for the wedding ima do things my way!!! Its my day so if they dont like it they dont have to come. Keep that mentality and ull be fine.

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I have the same experience. Its so tough. I cried and cried and cried and I probably have already had a nervous breakdown... maybe two. Then I realized its not worth it. No matter how hard you try you are never going to make everyone happy. Its important to just do what you and your FH want for your big day. And tell the others that the decisions are going to be made between you and FH and that's that. That won't make it go away but hopefully that will eventually shut them up. It's tough but you have to stand your ground.

Hang in there!!!

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It's impossible to make everybody happy....just go with your gut.....as long as you can sleep at night w/the decision you made....is my motto.

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I felt this way a couple of weeks ago. My advice is to take a day for yourself. Call in sick and pamper yourself. It sounds like you could use a mental health day...seriously. I recently started taking a yoga class and it forces me to relax and focus on myself. I hope you feel better!!!

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Everyone is going to have their own opinion on what they think is right and what they think you should do---but unless you're GOING to those people to ask their opinion about the situation, they should let you do what's good for you---and you should! I agree with the other post--as long as you can rest your head peacufully on your pillow at night, you know you did the right thing. Hang in there-I hope you're feeling better