did you ever think you'd be getting married at the age you're going to be?

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Posted by diva7531

yeah I thought I would be married by 25 and finsh having all my kids by 32, or so I thought when I was really young. At 25 I couldn't fathom being married!!!!!! Well at 25 I had my first kid, will get married at 31 and by the grace of God start having more kids at 32!!!!

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Awww, what a cutie! love her little pose and outfit in this pic!

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Ideally I wanted to be married at 28...i only met FH then...getting married at 34...but he was worth the wait!

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Posted by billandme

I always thought I would be married with 2 kids by 25......
WRONG on both!!!!

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ditto!!!

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As a little girl, I never really though about when I wanted to be married.

I met Steve when I was 14, and still wasn't thinking marriage! We started dating when I was 16... and now I'm 22 (will be 23 two weeks after the wedding) and we're getting married! I know that most people consider this 'young' but when you know, you know!

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I always said I'd get married after 30 (when i was a kid i thought 30 was old and I had no desire to get married ).....FH never thought he'd get married at all. Well, we're both over 30 and now that I look back I wasn't ready to get married until I met FH and I was in my late 20's anyway. I'm glad I didn't meet him sooner....things worked out perfectly !

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I think if you asked me in 5th grade, I would have said married by 24 and at least 2 kids by 30.

I will be 28.5 when I get married and want to be married for a bit before I start popping out kids.

I'm like the black sheep - everyone else in my fam got married in their early 20s.

I was having too much fun partying and hanging out with friends and boys to think about marriage!
(sometimes I still feel that way !)

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I always thought I'd get married around 23 or 24. I'm 21 (I turn 22 one month after the wedding), so I was only a few years off.

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Since FH and I have been together for 9 years I thought I would have been a little younger like 22 or 23 and finish having kids at 30 but I decided to go to law school so that blew all my plans out the water. I don't regret it though. I know everything happens for a reason.

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Wanted to have my first child at 27, never thought I would get married. Then I did want to get married before I turned 30. Well I'm 31 will be 32 three weeks after our wedding. Hopefully I'll get lucky and have a honeymoon baby.

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I always knew I wanted to have a baby @ 30 (b/c my mom was 30 when she had me). But I'll be just 1 month shy of 30 on my wedding day. No kids, yet. Looks like we'll begin tryin early '08 or so.

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I wanted to get married ever since i was 16 and have my children really young! But obviously that never happened!
According to what i wanted i should've had my 5th kid by now!

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i am going to be 24 for the wedding....my life plan was to be 26-27 so were moving along! now i can have kids before 30!!!

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Actually I'll be a year past it. I always said I wanted to be married and pregnant at 35, but I'll be married at 36. I guess I'll have a lot of fun on my honeymoon to be somewhat on schedule.

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When I was in my teens I always dreamt of marrying at 25. I even went as far as to buy bridal books and pick out the dress, hall, invitations, etc...LOL I was engaged when I was 17 but had to break up with the man. He was no good for me, that was like a drug but I knew that if I wanted to go to college and pursue bigger things, there was no way I could've done it with him. So after that break up, I dated a few guys but it was only for fun. I was with someone for 7 years, and I thought we would be married. We talked about marriage and the whole nine yards, but that too was bad for me! He was not compatible for me, it too me 7 years to realize that! I then dated around and that's when I met FH, at 28. I told him that I wanted to be married by 30 because I didn't want to wait too long to have children. Although we talked about things, marriage seemed a long road ahead. When he finally proposed to me I was 31...I said to myself, I cannot wait another year! If I'm getting married, the time is NOW! So here we are 4 years after our first date, and we're getting married. I guess I would say, the wait was worth it because this is the greatest man I've ever had in my life!

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I never thought I'd get married! It never really crossed my mind - and on my wedding day i'll be 24 and the FIRST of all my friends!

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