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Well, I always assume that a bride and groom are busy settling in for about a month or two after the wedding and I wait to call them. But since, you initiated contact w/ your friends, they really should call you back. Maybe they're just busy and they assume that because you have DH, there's no rush to get back to you.
I don't talk to a BM really any more - but for the most part, we're all trying, but our schedules keep getting in our way! The holiday's will help us all get together - including my friends who live upstate.
While I haven't lost touch with the wedding party (sisters, SIL and BF) I have definitely lost touch with others. I realized that after the wedding, I definitely don't have as many friends as I used to.
Posted by hmpena
While I haven't lost touch with the wedding party (sisters, SIL and BF) I have definitely lost touch with others. I realized that after the wedding, I definitely don't have as many friends as I used to.
Posted by beautyq115
Posted by hmpena
While I haven't lost touch with the wedding party (sisters, SIL and BF) I have definitely lost touch with others. I realized that after the wedding, I definitely don't have as many friends as I used to.
Its really sadEveryone talks to you during the process and then they are gone
it happens, we moved out of state and are both working insane hours so it's hard to keep in touch
a friend of mine left early, i mean before the main course came. they ran out so fast without saying goobye to me or dh. she said they had to catch there train since they read the schedule wrong. i keep trying to make plans with her, but she wants us to come into the city. she doesn't really want to come to us
Funny you all mention this, because I feel the same! I kind of felt sad and left out of things after the wedding, but once I spoke to a few girls, they told me no one has done much of anything! This isnt to say that I dont still feel a bit sad, but I think through the process you are curreltly talking ot people about plans etc...and then when its over, everyone just goes back to their normal lives! Very sad, but I feel like once the summer is over, everyone get busy and goes into hiding! haha well at least I tell myself this! I am hoping the holidays will change some things!
I haven't seen one of my BM's since the reception. I kind of had a feeling when during the wedding planning she called me and said 'if anyone ever asks me to be in a wedding, I will never say yes, it blows'. I couldn't believe it. She claims she has been sooooooooo busy. She has a new boyfriend and they always are priority before her friends.
Posted by soon2bcopswife
I haven't seen one of my BM's since the reception. I kind of had a feeling when during the wedding planning she called me and said 'if anyone ever asks me to be in a wedding, I will never say yes, it blows'. I couldn't believe it. She claims she has been sooooooooo busy. She has a new boyfriend and they always are priority before her friends.
Hmmm not really lost touch is just that I could care less for some people...then others I just havent spoke to in a while and I miss them...
I haven't spoken to one of my BM since my wedding, and I really couldn't care less about it. I definetly asked her to be in the BP too early & we barely spoke the months before my wedding. She got a new boyfriend and dropped her only 2 friends.
it's sad. i feel like so many people have fallen off the face of the earth.
